Maybe I'm just not interpreting things the way you are. There is a disagreement. Some don't get how others can look at what she did and not see the problem, but that doesn't mean they are looking down on those people.
Like I said, actions have consequences. Endorsing shit like what the chick does plays into how we are perceived in general. If you don't care about what others think of you or our community, then it's all good. However, you can't promote shit like this and then turn around and bitch when other groups only see us as that. You can't be against stereotypes but happily reinforce them at the same time.