Does A Person's Past Matter?

BNE said:
maybe that chick just wanna be filmed!


but that logic wasn't proposed by a woman, hence the scenario I gave

a distinction is clearly and frequently made that it's different if it's within the bounds of a relationship.

I've never seen that distinction solely or even mostly made by women, so it'd be interesting if you'd expound on that.
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well the reason i would say college can get her by ...is because most women that get to college lose their minds. the freedom most of them never had they dont know how to handle....so if she was in a long term relationship.....she just coming into her own as a adult..i can let it slide. i have to be honest and realistic. after three years...their has to had been a form of trust and comfort. i cant be too rigid.
 
Eh, a person's past matters depending on what it is. Like, do what you do but just make sure your health is A1 and leave that shit in the past.
If a dude tells me he was whooping on exes and shit, that's a done deal. There's no excuse, period.
If he was out in those SKREETS slanging dope, do you boo that's your past.
As long as his jail time wasn't for kidnapping, rape, anything to do with harming a minor and things of that nature cool.
 
BNE said:
if somebody uses college as an excuse, that tells me they let the trope of wild college days dictate their actions. college's purpose is education. if you're gonna make a loophole for that, you may as well just say "between the ages of 18 and 22, she gets a pass". I'm guessing this wouldn't apply to grad school or people who are getting their bachelors later in life? therefore, it's a youth clause.
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nah.....people lose their mind with new freedoms. same with recently divorced people.....its not a loophole....but i would understand and get it.
 
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