Dad’s not ready for a baby...

[Chicity]

Chappelle was right:

Men should be able to opt out of that shit.

"If you can kill this muhfucker, then I can at least abandon him. My money, my choice."

This

Unless a dude intentionally sell dreams and trapping chicks, there SHOULD be an opt out clause for guys, same as it is for women

And please don't quote hollering double standards and IIWII. I get that. Doesn't mean the standards SHOULDN'T be changed

 

[mryounggun]

I honestly don't classify this as a double-standard. It's a necessity of nature.

 

[Maza Yanga]

The bastard generation continues...four wives if you're really live. If you know you know.

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

Men should be able to opt out via legal abortion.

No I don't think you should have to support a child you didn't want

 

[5th Letter]

When the double standard benefit the woman “get over it”, when the double standard benefit the man “we need to have a conversation”...

 

[DMorgan]

Either way Dave joke ain’t have no truth in it that’s gonna wake up people. It’s many ways not to have a kid you don’t want and that’s it

Sure is!!

 

[SeaSnake]

This

Unless a dude intentionally sell dreams and trapping chicks, there SHOULD be an opt out clause for guys, same as it is for women

And please don't quote hollering double standards and IIWII. I get that. Doesn't mean the standards SHOULDN'T be changed

What’s the option to opt out? Just not having to pay child support? Because their is no law saying you gotta raise a kid

 

[SeaSnake]

What type of law is gonna force a chick to have an abortion because you don’t want it? Or not pay child support? So the state has to take care of your kid because you can control your nut? If niggas really think like this it explains why our community fucked up

 

[B_A]

What type of law is gonna force a chick to have an abortion because you don’t want it? Or not pay child support? So the state has to take care of your kid because you can control your nut?

Basically why there is a "double standard". There is no other feasible or logical way to "deal" with this conundrum.

 

[BDP™️]

So the state has to take care of your kid because you let a man enter without protection? If women really think like this it explains why our community fucked up

Goes both ways my friend

 

[Chicity]

What’s the option to opt out? Just not having to pay child support? Because their is no law saying you gotta raise a kid

Paying child support is that law that says you have to 'raise' your child

What type of law is gonna force a chick to have an abortion because you don’t want it? Or not pay child support? So the state has to take care of your kid because you can control your nut? If niggas really think like this it explains why our community fucked up

What's the old saying, it takes two to tangle?

Both parties are responsible for bringing creating a child. Therefore, if a woman has the power of pro choice, a man SHOULD have the power of pro payment.

We could walk thru every what if scenario you could imagine if you like

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

What type of law is gonna force a chick to have an abortion because you don’t want it? Or not pay child support? So the state has to take care of your kid because you can control your nut? If niggas really think like this it explains why our community fucked up

It's quite simple to me.

Either both mothers and fathers sign a lil paper that says they finna look after the kid

Or allow the man to legally disown the kid.

And this thing about controllin' a nut. Children don't appear after one night stands. Takes nine months and several hospital visits before a kids comes out it's not some accident

 

[B_A]

If you're not ready to raise a child you're not ready to have unprotected sex. If you have sex you inherently agree you are ready because babies are a natural sequence to sex.

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

Like this men need to control their nut shit is kinda sexist. Imagine tellin' woman she need to stay in a man's life forever coz they fucked once. Like say women don't kno' there's no condom.

 

[B_A]

The law was created by men, assuming, they knew damn well if the law was men could opt out if not ready, far too many men would "opt out". Its a ridiculous argument.

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

If you're not ready to raise a child you're not ready to have unprotected sex. If you have sex you inherently agree you are ready because babies are a natural sequence to sex.

Ridiculous. You ready to have a child every time you have unprotected sex?

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

The law was created by men, assuming, they knew damn well if the law was men could opt out if not ready, far too many men would "opt out". Its a ridiculous argument.

And then there would be far fewer single mums. It's a win win for me

 

[B_A]

Ridiculous. You ready to have a child every time you have unprotected sex?

Oh so that's what goin on? Peolle fucking all willy nilly not assuming a child could happen after any sexual intercourse... interesting...

 

[B_A]

And then there would be far fewer single mums. It's a win win for me

How so? If she keeps it but he opts out?

 

[Rubato]

Men should be able to opt out via legal abortion.

Huh? Against her will?