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Anyone have a family member that just can't figure their life out????

William Munny said:
I think the issue is, when you tell your brother shit like this, he either shuts off entirely from family, or blames his parents for some shit from his childhood for why he is the way he is.
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And as an adult...he's free to do that. But let it never be said that I didn't do everything I could to help by silly ass brother get it together. You can only control what you can control.
 
Does your brother not want to call the landlord because he technically shouldn't be renting the apartment that he should be the one occupying in the first place?

I don't really know how these contract terms work. Landlords vet tenants before leasing them rooms, it's understandable some of them wouldn't want some random fuck in their apartment who they haven't approved because they could very well turn out to be scumbags... Which apparently is exactly what's happened here.
 
Bobjones said:
Does your brother not want to call the landlord because he technically shouldn't be renting the apartment that he should be the one occupying in the first place?

I don't really know how these contract terms work. Landlords vet tenants before leasing them rooms, it's understandable some of them wouldn't want some random fuck in their apartment who they haven't approved because they could very well turn out to be scumbags... Which apparently is exactly what's happened here.
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I think that probably has something to do with it. It's actually a fairly decent apartment, but its technically income based section 8 housing. Because of covid, nobody is really being evicted right now. Because of this, your brother has just been paying rent to month, and avoiding signing a lease with no consequences.

Because he hasn't signed a lease, he figures he can just have a guy stay there for the four month's he's gone, and then sign a lease when he get backs. I'm pretty sure this against the leasing rules, and that's why he doesn't want to say anything to the leasing company.
 
Your brother tried giving the guy a heads up, but it seems like his number has been blocked LMAO. So now atleast your brother listened to your advice about the calling the leasing company.

Bro I was... I mean I can see why somebody might get a little spun up and feel like he's about to raid osama bin laden's compound unnecessarily.
 
My bro the dude that cant get his shit together. Addiction is his problem. Whats the underlying cause of his addiction? That idk.

I stay giving him money, im talking thousands. Mfer runs through money faster than I do. But hes married and stay lying to his wife when his credit cards are full and then I gotta bail him out so that his marriage dont fall apart.

Shits crazy.

All that said, your hypothetical brother still worse than mine. Lmaooo
 
SheerExcellence said:
i’d help him out this time but i’d also have a talk with him and tell him hope you feel about the decisions he is making, and also tell him you’re not going to help him out of his mistakes again, because you have your own life to worry about.
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Dude said his bro 31. My bro in his 30s too. At this point those talks happened a ton of times. And they dont work.

At this point you either cut your bro off or accept him as is.

I cant cut my bro off. Instead I just be steaming in silence when he asks for money. Cause it shames him too, but he got nowhere to turn too .

I get worried bout what he might do if I dont help. Like what or who does he turn to at that point?

Shit like this is crazy. Gotta live it to truly understand.
 
My sister once had a roommate... And she wanted him out. I was like.... If you want me to help you... Imma give you the heads up now.... Y'all not gonna be friends noooooo more.

I think dude heard me talking cuz he was ghost when I got downstairs....I was to crack his knee with a hammer then wrestle his big ass down.... Like that was my planned attack
.. Shit was bout to get ugly
 
AZTG said:
I get worried bout what he might do if I dont help. Like what or who does he turn to at that point?

Shit like this is crazy. Gotta live it to truly understand.
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I get that. Whenever I gotta do some dumb shit for my brother, my GF always says "Why are you acting like this is you responsibility."

To someone outside the situation, its seems like its obviously not my situation. But when you have to deal with a family member hurting themself or turning to god knows what... the situation does become you responsibility
 
William Munny said:
I get that. Whenever I gotta do some dumb shit for my brother, my GF always says "Why are you acting like this is you responsibility."

To someone outside the situation, its seems like its obviously not my situation. But when you have to deal with a family member hurting themself or turning to god knows what... the situation does become you responsibility
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Yep. And if something like that happens, its not just you being hurt over what happened to your bro, its that plus the hurt your parents are gonna go through.

Easy to say just cut the mfer off, but I personally cant.
 
Whatever you decide, just make sure you come back and tell us the story.

Or at least tell us what city this is going down in so we can look out for the police reports.
 
This is a legal matter

there’s no lease but once homie pays anything he is a tenant so there’s that

if your bro is that shook he can call the police and have them escort him through the house while he moves his shit....
 
TheNightKing said:
Whatever you decide, just make sure you come back and tell us the story.

Or at least tell us what city this is going down in so we can look out for the police reports.
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for the purpose of this thread, let’s just say this is taking place in the biggest city in the state of MN.

Im goin over there tomorrow morning
 
TheNightKing said:
Whatever you decide, just make sure you come back and tell us the story.

Or at least tell us what city this is going down in so we can look out for the police reports.
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for the purpose of this thread, let’s just say this is taking place in the biggest city in the state of MN.
 
William Munny said:
So this all totally hypothetical, but lets say you, the reader of this post, has brother who can't really seem to get his shit together.

So your brother has never really had a serious job, other than serving at restaurants. Covid put a kobash on that obviously, but he's put really put no effort into finding another job on that, even tho he has familial connects to people that could get him a job making a livable wage.

Well.... so my, I mean this hypothetical brother, has been trying to make music, trying art shit, trying everything besides something that could actually be productive. He decides he wants to move the Virgin Island for four months, no plan on place once he gets there. He just knows a chick from HS he hasn't seen in 10 years is living there and she'll let him pay rent month to month once he gets there.

So while he's gone for four months, he decides to rent his apartment in the States out while he's gone to a shady dude. This shady dude is a weed dealer, but seems fairly small time. He's told some pretty crazy stories about shooting at people in the past, but you can't really tell if they are true or not. Once your brother leaves for the Virgin Islands, the shady dude decides he doesn't wanna pay the rent amount they agreed to. Your brother is so nervous for the belongings of his in his apartment, he's flying home after only being in St. Thomas for 10 days to move his shit out of the apartment because he's so sketched by this dude.

Your brother then asks you to take time off work to show up and help move his belongings out and be the muscle (LOL), in case this dude spazzes out, because apparently he's volatile.

First off, helping people move fucking sucks. It's annoying enough to have help people move, but then to have to worry about psycho dude? WTF! The whole situation could have easily avoidable. Like at 31 years old you'd except someone to be smart enough who they let live in their apartment.

Shit man. Anyways. What would ya'll do? Show up strapped? Tell your brother to get his god damn shit together? Wack shit all around.






Also.... this brother didn't even tell you he was leaving for the Virgin Island for four months, you found out second hand through your parents, and he never said shit to you before leaving.......
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No lie. The bolded is some real white ppl shit
 
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