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Scandalust313 said:
Anatomy isn't the issue getting to "da spot"....it's most likely positioning.

The position she's in could very well effect whether or not you find da spot.

I've found that elevating the pelvis helps A LOT. e.g. If I'm on my back, I'd put a firm pillow under my butt...my feet are flat on the bed w/my knees pointed at the ceiling, legs wide or knees out to the sides (this is for finger or penis btw). Some women can get g-spot stimulation from being on top and riding. Postioning isn't a one size fits all.


***I call this part the "seek and destroy mission" LOL***

Finger goes in about an inch or two, crook it upward and make the "come here" gesture...be VERY GENTLE (and YES! cut & clean your damn nails!!! s/o @IP360 & @Hellczar ). You should feel something about the size of, say, a peanut...a smooth fleshy peanut lol. The more you massage it, the more firm it gets, the more stimulated it becomes.

Now this is where so many of y'all phuck up...once y'all even find out about "da spot's" existence and that stimulating could possibly lead to her squirting, that's the ONLY thing y'all focus on and you become overzealous and that can sometimes make her physically and mentally uncomfortable and cause her to tense up. Her body, as well as her mind, has to be in a state of relaxtion. For best results, keep in mind that this isn't just phisical. This is a fully immersive experience for a lot of women.
S/N: Some women have an easier time having g-spot orgasms.

***Also keep in mind, no matter how much her g-spot is stimulated, not all women will squirt***

When she's about to orgasm (if you can get her there), she may say it feels like she has to pee or the feeling is too intense and she can't take it. This is pretty normal. If she can't take the intensity, just stop. If she says it feels like she has to pee, slow your strokes, talk to her in a soothing voice and let her know that feeling is normal. Suck her nipples if she likes that. Have her rub her clit or you do it, to kind of divert some of that stimulation from the g-spot to the clit. Maybe that's too much stimulation for her. Basically, everything after finding "da spot" is just a matter of finding what works for that particular woman to get her to experience the Big O (or multiple Os).
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Well said
 
Scandalust313 said:
Anatomy isn't the issue getting to "da spot"....it's most likely positioning.

The position she's in could very well effect whether or not you find da spot.

I've found that elevating the pelvis helps A LOT. e.g. If I'm on my back, I'd put a firm pillow under my butt...my feet are flat on the bed w/my knees pointed at the ceiling, legs wide or knees out to the sides (this is for finger or penis btw). Some women can get g-spot stimulation from being on top and riding. Postioning isn't a one size fits all.


***I call this part the "seek and destroy mission" LOL***

Finger goes in about an inch or two, crook it upward and make the "come here" gesture...be VERY GENTLE (and YES! cut & clean your damn nails!!! s/o @IP360 & @Hellczar ). You should feel something about the size of, say, a peanut...a smooth fleshy peanut lol. The more you massage it, the more firm it gets, the more stimulated it becomes.

Now this is where so many of y'all phuck up...once y'all even find out about "da spot's" existence and that stimulating could possibly lead to her squirting, that's the ONLY thing y'all focus on and you become overzealous and that can sometimes make her physically and mentally uncomfortable and cause her to tense up. Her body, as well as her mind, has to be in a state of relaxtion. For best results, keep in mind that this isn't just phisical. This is a fully immersive experience for a lot of women.
S/N: Some women have an easier time having g-spot orgasms.

***Also keep in mind, no matter how much her g-spot is stimulated, not all women will squirt***

When she's about to orgasm (if you can get her there), she may say it feels like she has to pee or the feeling is too intense and she can't take it. This is pretty normal. If she can't take the intensity, just stop. If she says it feels like she has to pee, slow your strokes, talk to her in a soothing voice and let her know that feeling is normal. Suck her nipples if she likes that. Have her rub her clit or you do it, to kind of divert some of that stimulation from the g-spot to the clit. Maybe that's too much stimulation for her. Basically, everything after finding "da spot" is just a matter of finding what works for that particular woman to get her to experience the Big O (or multiple Os).
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Thank you for that thorough and candid response.

I think this thread can also be one where people can ask sexual questions without judgement. Of course according to us, we all know what we're doing, but I'm all for continuous improvement.

Us guys have preferences as well.
 
Scandalust313 said:
Anatomy isn't the issue getting to "da spot"....it's most likely positioning.

The position she's in could very well effect whether or not you find da spot.

I've found that elevating the pelvis helps A LOT. e.g. If I'm on my back, I'd put a firm pillow under my butt...my feet are flat on the bed w/my knees pointed at the ceiling, legs wide or knees out to the sides (this is for finger or penis btw). Some women can get g-spot stimulation from being on top and riding. Postioning isn't a one size fits all.


***I call this part the "seek and destroy mission" LOL***

Finger goes in about an inch or two, crook it upward and make the "come here" gesture...be VERY GENTLE (and YES! cut & clean your damn nails!!! s/o @IP360 & @Hellczar ). You should feel something about the size of, say, a peanut...a smooth fleshy peanut lol. The more you massage it, the more firm it gets, the more stimulated it becomes.

Now this is where so many of y'all phuck up...once y'all even find out about "da spot's" existence and that stimulating could possibly lead to her squirting, that's the ONLY thing y'all focus on and you become overzealous and that can sometimes make her physically and mentally uncomfortable and cause her to tense up. Her body, as well as her mind, has to be in a state of relaxtion. For best results, keep in mind that this isn't just phisical. This is a fully immersive experience for a lot of women.
S/N: Some women have an easier time having g-spot orgasms.

***Also keep in mind, no matter how much her g-spot is stimulated, not all women will squirt***

When she's about to orgasm (if you can get her there), she may say it feels like she has to pee or the feeling is too intense and she can't take it. This is pretty normal. If she can't take the intensity, just stop. If she says it feels like she has to pee, slow your strokes, talk to her in a soothing voice and let her know that feeling is normal. Suck her nipples if she likes that. Have her rub her clit or you do it, to kind of divert some of that stimulation from the g-spot to the clit. Maybe that's too much stimulation for her. Basically, everything after finding "da spot" is just a matter of finding what works for that particular woman to get her to experience the Big O (or multiple Os).
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Other ladies, anything to add?
 
Golan said:
Meanwhile on the male side of the orgasm spectrum, we're lucky if it lasts more than 10 secs and the post nut-clarity doesn't hit too hard, lol.

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I mean I’ve had two nuts in my life that made my knees buckle. Not even like during da nut, like....she had to leave and her mama was picking her up at my house. Her pussy was fiyah, but I only hit twice cause she became oddly obsessive with me..dats another story tho

anyway, got a quicky..finished up just as she gets a call that her mama outside. No lie..got up, put something on, walked her to her mama car, she get in, they leave , I turned around to walk to my house..two steps and my knees gave way. This ain’t even washed me, this was like..19 or 21year old me..

shit straight collapsed...I wouldn’t be surprised if in actuality I fainted but just ain’t know how a faint feel.

but That shit only happen one other time. Every other time pretty much what you explained tho.

only other time was this white chick that..just as I nutted, hitting it doggy. She slammed herself into me and did some pussy clinch shit as she moved away.

shit was like, ..you know in a space movie where they be like they gotta depressurize the room and they open a door and a bunch of shit get sucked out into space?

shit was like dat..my fucking essence left my body for a moment.

on some...awwwwwwwww

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like...I understood the meaning of life for a instant...

then the post nut clarity hit and I lost it
 
Just thought about sumn else I wanna talk/ask about but I need at least one lady in here that does drugs lol

No bullshit
 
I had this one chick that was giving me head and right when I was about to cum she applied pressure to the taint with her thumb and I lost it!!!

Never experienced that ever again but I've been searching for it ever since. I'm afraid to ask wifey to try it because I'm sure there was some witchcraft involved that she wouldn't know about.
 
TheNightKing said:
I had this one chick that was giving me head and right when I was about to cum she applied pressure to the taint with her thumb and I lost it!!!

Never experienced that ever again but I've been searching for it ever since. I'm afraid to ask wifey to try it because I'm sure there was some witchcraft involved that she wouldn't know about.
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Take your place at the head of the bed King ✊🏾
 
TheNightKing said:
I had this one chick that was giving me head and right when I was about to cum she applied pressure to the taint with her thumb and I lost it!!!

Never experienced that ever again but I've been searching for it ever since. I'm afraid to ask wifey to try it because I'm sure there was some witchcraft involved that she wouldn't know about.
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That be the trippy part you find you a gal that does all that and then you be afraid to ask the next chick if she's into that type of stuff..... but you realize it's only one gal that can do it like you do it and she don't even want to talk to you anymore cause you was scared about how she turned you out but you was v to scared to give in and ended up messing up the whole relationship... so ummm yea like I was saying it's messed up
 
Hazeleyes said:
The hell lol
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Sex involving drugs is....different

Theres just some shit that happens in my personal case that I wonder about sometimes

But im really not trying to go into it with anybody who doesn't actually know
 
Men have yall ever had a chick riding yall face and is getting good and you can't breathe. And she grinding on your face like toothbrush to the teeth?
 
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