using your definition, how can you truly have pride in your race and roots if you don't intend to perpetuate it? reproducing with a white person might create a child that identifies with blackness, ok. what then if that child just happens to fall in love with a white person too? how many generations before the blackness and the roots you claim to love become a distant past?
love doesn't happen by accident. for it to form, you have to be open to it. for example, I am not open to falling in love with someone who has conservative views. sure, you can't help who you love, but I'd have to first be open enough to view them in that light. that comes before the development of any feelings.
that's a selective kind of pro-blackness if it only applies to the outer community and not your love life or family. it starts within. if something within you leads to you choosing a white person, there's nothing wrong with it. you just aren't that pro-black.
