I don't agree with the idea "a real man NEVER hits a woman" for 2 reasons 1) You're saying it's ok to hit a man. It's not ok to hit ANYONE unless its for self defense. You're also promoting the idea men can't be abused by women which is not true. 2) You're saying women are weaker than men which...

When i was a kid, i had false expectations on attracting women. I thought you had to be manly, arrogant, materialistic, etc. because that's what other boys told me. After spending time with some girls, i realized that's far from the truth. I had a friend who's name was Layla. She was a very nice...

To survive a relationship, you need to control your anxiety. When you get anxious, you start doing things that destroy the relationship. When i get anxious for example, i get paranoid. I'm afraid my partner is cheating, lying, or in an accident. I tend to have outbursts and interrogate. I listen...

It's very hard for me to reject mentally unhealthy women in dating. They're like a drug. I have to do it if i want to find real love. When you drown in feelings for someone, you ignore red flags and signs that person is hurting you or will hurt you in the future. Unhealthy women might make you...

We know that marriage is a sort of a contract but what do you think about having contracts or agreements for relationships? For example... You and the person you're interested in or have been dating decide to be committed to each other (exclusively or otherwise) for a given period of time (1yr...

I had a one-on-one meeting with my coworker who's married. We both sat down across from each other and I noticed that he started tugging on the collar of his shirt for a few seconds. Then, he started touching his face. He started rubbing his mouth area and the sides of his face with his hand...

Not too long ago, my therapist had said something to me that made me feel uncomfortable as well as uncertain about how he views me. At one point, I had told him that I liked him as a therapist. Right after I had made that comment, he told me with a big smile on his face that he was glad that I...

Single people, what do you miss about being in a relationship? Taken people, what do you miss about being single?

Would you date someone who is closer to their best friend than they were to you? Would the best friend being the opposite gender, change anything? Would it bother you?

5.) Issa was out of line, you're supposed to hold down your dude if he's going through a rough time. 4.) Lawrence still supposed to make Issa feel every kiss he gives her and still treat her like a gf. 3.) Ppl have their own agendas to justify their actions. 2.) Molly sexy than a...

Cheating has been around since forever. Sadly, cheating has damn near become acceptable. People are so open about having side chicks, main chicks, weekend chicks, a chick just for Thursday nights. It's a high chance that if you haven't cheated yourself or been cheated on, you know at least 5...

Is having a good mental connection with someone more important than a physical one? Would you prefer someone who has a 10 personality but a 3 in looks or a 3 personality but a 10 in looks?

Could you be in a relationship with someone that your friend slept with? Men: Let's say your friend gets with a chick who was ran through quite often. Would you tell him or let him be? Women: Let's say your friend gets with a man who was fucking every bitch in sight. Would you tell her or let...

Stolen: So I just saw this and want to pose the question to my single folks... Would you swap phones with someone and go through each other's phones to "get to know them" and ultimately make a choice to get to know them further or not based solely on what you saw while with the phone?

How are often are you willing to have conversations with your s/o about your feelings and whatnot? I know men hate when women say "we need to talk."

For one I thought it was funny that it's my name and says she is a single parent of one, like myself. I also have a fear of my child not being accepted or treated as a grandchild to my new man's family. I don't care for all the lavish gifts, I just want him to be loved and accepted. Growing up...

Debate in my whatsapp group. Is it the woman's issue if the attention she is getting from her dude is not enough, or does the issue lie with the man not giving her the attention she needs and should it be on him to increase? I know I am needy and get idle quickly. I like attention and when I...

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