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Freeman said:
What else was I supposed to get from it? Go ahead and tell me what I missed.
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Nah

You seem mad spicy this morning for some reason

And I'm not trying to change your mind. We just got two different things from that particular clip. That's all
 
AP3.0 said:
Dawg

You can have a preference but to suggest dating a person with kids is a bad thing is insane

There are hundreds of thousands of blended families
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most issues that blended family face is kids from a outside relationship
 
AP3.0 said:
Nah

You seem mad spicy this morning for some reason

And I'm not trying to change your mind. We just got two different things from that particular clip. That's all
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I'm not looking for smoke. What did you get from the clip?
 
Agent_Ro said:
I’m just not a blended family guy

:js4:
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And that's fine

AGAIN. If you are speaking from a preference, cool but if you're speaking to suggest that no single person should date a person with kids is insane
 
Dwayne said:
most issues that blended family face is kids from a outside relationship
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Fam

You think this goes away if you decide to stay single if you get divorced

The older you get, the more likely you are going to meet women that have children. Whether they are small or young. Then you have to deal with the shit that comes with that because what if you meet a woman with a green son but she coddles him to the point where it's a strain on y'all?
 
AP3.0 said:
And that's fine

AGAIN. If you are speaking from a preference, cool but if you're speaking to suggest that no single person should date a person with kids is insane
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Understood


I got a friend who’s dated women with kids and it hurt him in his last relationship that he no longer sees the child since they broke up and he doesn’t live in the same state as his ex

His new GF has kids and he doesn’t mind that. Good for him. I couldn’t do it but some men can. He’s one of them
 
Freeman said:
I'm not looking for smoke. What did you get from the clip?
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I'll take you at your word brother

But I didn't think he was saying "hey listen to me cause I'm married".

So two things

I thought he was making a generalization based on his his experiences with the people he know. "Y'all ask me how to get a woman and I try to tell you but you rather listen to this dude who is contradicting himself living a double life".

Second, he was pointing out what I feel you, me and others already concluded that a lot of these "top tier/alpha male" niggas on these pods be full of shit making a bag off niggas insecurities and take what he says as gospel.
 
Agent_Ro said:
Understood


I got a friend who’s dated women with kids and it hurt him in his last relationship that he no longer sees the child since they broke up and he doesn’t live in the same state as his ex

His new GF has kids and he doesn’t mind that. Good for him. I couldn’t do it but some men can. He’s one of them
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We all know people in situations like this brother

I'll just say, if you truly and I truly find a woman that you connect with on a deeper level but she has a kid, don't close that door off the rip.

But if you can't do it under any circumstances then that's your right as well
 
AP3.0 said:
We all know people in situations like this brother

I'll just say, if you truly and I truly find a woman that you connect with on a deeper level but she has a kid, don't close that door off the rip.

But if you can't do it under any circumstances then that's your right as well
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🤝🏾
 
AP3.0 said:
I'll take you at your word brother

But I didn't think he was saying "hey listen to me cause I'm married".

So two things

I thought he was making a generalization based on his his experiences with the people he know. "Y'all ask me how to get a woman and I try to tell you but you rather listen to this dude who is contradicting himself living a double life".

Second, he was pointing out what I feel you, me and others already concluded that a lot of these "top tier/alpha male" niggas on these pods be full of shit making a bag off niggas insecurities and take what he says as gospel.
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I get the other dude is clearly a hypocrite and isnt living his raps I just don't see what qualifies him over anyone else. We don't know who he is. I just see a nigga in his car telling me about another man's life. Seems like hater shit. Just because one is saying what you want to hear as opposed to the other doesn't mean they're both not full of shit.

I rather both of them not have an audience. We don't need car seat tiktok advisers. It shouldn't be a thing.
 
I might've told this story before on here but after my wife passed it took some time to get back in the dating world. Once I did I joined a dating app and saw this one chick in the city on there and we struck up a conversation and we're chit chatting nothing deep just hey/bye type shit and small little things we kept it light. After about a 2wks of light yapping we decided to meet in person. Go to the bar we hug and say the usual "great to finally meet in person".

We order a some drinks so far the vibe is cool we laughing keekeeing and what not. Then we get the deep part of our conversation, she tell me her life story and that she was married it didn't work out and she has 2 kids. I run threw my life story and tell her I'm a recent single father due to my wife's passing.

Vibe completely switched and she was like sorry but this date is over. I was legit shocked she hit me with I'm sorry but I don't date a man with kid(s). I started laughing like aight bet. I walked her to her car gave her a pound and walked back into the bar. I heard her say something "like that's it?". I walked into the bar sit down at the table we had and order some food and another drink. Shorty sent me this long ass text basically cussing me out for HER ending the date. If had my old phone I would load the screenshot. She was mad as fuck and I was killing her with kindness and she kept getting madder.

fun times 😐
 
Old Man Cain said:
I might've told this story before on here but after my wife passed it took some time to get back in the dating world. Once I did I joined a dating app and saw this one chick in the city on there and we struck up a conversation and we're chit chatting nothing deep just hey/bye type shit and small little things we kept it light. After about a 2wks of light yapping we decided to meet in person. Go to the bar we hug and say the usual "great to finally meet in person".

We order a some drinks so far the vibe is cool we laughing keekeeing and what not. Then we get the deep part of our conversation, she tell me her life story and that she was married it didn't work out and she has 2 kids. I run threw my life story and tell her I'm a recent single father due to my wife's passing.

Vibe completely switched and she was like sorry but this date is over. I was legit shocked she hit me with I'm sorry but I don't date a man with kid(s). I started laughing like aight bet. I walked her to her car gave her a pound and walked back into the bar. I heard her say something "like that's it?". I walked into the bar sit down at the table we had and order some food and another drink. Shorty sent me this long ass text basically cussing me out for HER ending the date. If had my old phone I would load the screenshot. She was mad as fuck and I was killing her with kindness and she kept getting madder.

fun times 😐
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The hell she get mad for, was you supposed to fight for her?
 
Freeman said:
I get the other dude is clearly a hypocrite and isnt living his raps I just don't see what qualifies him over anyone else. We don't know who he is. I just see a nigga in his car telling me about another man's life. Seems like hater shit. Just because one is saying what you want to hear as opposed to the other doesn't mean they're both not full of shit.

I rather both of them not have an audience. We don't need car seat tiktok advisers. It shouldn't be a thing.
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I understand much better now🫱🏿‍🫲🏾
 
loud-ninja said:
Would you let the person you are seeing know that? Cause you would be wasting their time if they didn't know.
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Yes, obviously.

you’re old enough to enough of somebody is just filling around and not actually dating
 
People try to dictate what will and work for others solely based on what they perceive as a hypothetical problem they don't want deal with.

Stop trying to predict a relationship. Half y'all broke up with people in y'all heads overthinking shit before you even shoot your shot.
 
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