loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
This is actually not obvious. There are many people out here wasting other people's time knowing they don't see a future with that individual.
COMMUNITY Dating Ppl With Kids Thread
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SeaSnake
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Freeman
Get well soon 🦉🇨🇦
All this was originally in the random thread and got moved to this one. That post got moved here by mistake.
SeaSnake
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I’m just not a blended family guy
Well do you actually want kids? Cuz if your 40 most 49 year old women had their kids or have trouble with fertility. If you don’t want kids it make sense or if you date younger
Swabbie
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SeaSnake
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lol supposed to convince her of some shit she said she don’t do. For one as a person who has been married why would she think you would be for bullshit games like that.
Them younger chicks gonna put you through it cause they ready to have em NOW and you might still be wanting to wait a min
Yea that’s my dilemma now. I don’t take any girl under 30 seriously as a partner. I don’t want to dumb it down
I know lol
But I’m just turned off by them being much younger than me. I’m not that guy who’s gonna try to have sex with every girl who’s over 21 like some people on this board wants to
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
I might've told this story before on here but after my wife passed it took some time to get back in the dating world. Once I did I joined a dating app and saw this one chick in the city on there and we struck up a conversation and we're chit chatting nothing deep just hey/bye type shit and small little things we kept it light. After about a 2wks of light yapping we decided to meet in person. Go to the bar we hug and say the usual "great to finally meet in person".
We order a some drinks so far the vibe is cool we laughing keekeeing and what not. Then we get the deep part of our conversation, she tell me her life story and that she was married it didn't work out and she has 2 kids. I run threw my life story and tell her I'm a recent single father due to my wife's passing.
Vibe completely switched and she was like sorry but this date is over. I was legit shocked she hit me with I'm sorry but I don't date a man with kid(s). I started laughing like aight bet. I walked her to her car gave her a pound and walked back into the bar. I heard her say something "like that's it?". I walked into the bar sit down at the table we had and order some food and another drink. Shorty sent me this long ass text basically cussing me out for HER ending the date. If had my old phone I would load the screenshot. She was mad as fuck and I was killing her with kindness and she kept getting madder.
fun times
This is the kind of shit that keeps me in the crib. I lightly dated a younger chick I met in passing some months before I moved, and she 100% reinforced my belief that I need to stay within 4-6 years of my age (she was 38). Since then it's been nothing. I ain't in the mood for stupidity and this date you went on prolly woulda had me goin' off on a chick. Like how the fuck you think anyone at this age DOESN'T have kids??? Even if they're older teens or grown-ish, most of us got kids.