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I bet you'd take the dinner with Jay Z too huh
you don’t have a wife or kids.


So you don’t understand the complications woman go through and how they need their S/O to be there for them mentally. It’s helps them tremendously



Woman, especially black woman have a high mortality rate during pregnancy. If you’re being there help only 1% with her it’s damn sure worth it.



It’s kinda selfish of yall to rather GO TO WORK than be there for your wife and kid.

“I’m” chasing greatness is a crazy statement



I was extremely helpful for my wife when she went into labor. She didn’t have to worry about anything but giving birth. I took care of everything else during that time. Made it very easy on her

I wanted her in good spirits at all time even before labor. A non stressed environment is key.
 
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you don’t have a wife or kids.


So you don’t understand the complications woman go through and how they need their S/O to be there for them mentally. It’s helps them tremendously



Woman, especially black woman have a high mortality rate during pregnancy. If you’re being there help only 1% with her it’s damn sure worth it.



It’s kinda selfish of yall to rather GO TO WORK than be there for your wife and kid.

“I’m” chasing greatness is a crazy statement



I was extremely helpful for my wife when she went into labor. She didn’t have to worry about anything but giving birth. I took care of everything else during that time. Made it very easy on her

I wanted her in good spirits at all time even before labor. A non stressed environment is key.
Obviously your stance cannot be "wrong" but it's still short sighted. It's basic af. It's kind of a ham and egger mentality. I'd rather be extraordinary anytime I get a chance and the woman i impregnate already feels the same way.

She will have plenty of support in the delivery room with friends and family by her side and ABC on flat screen

It's not even about the money like Du said. It does have something to do with my role on the team like 5th letter said but ultimately it's about what you said... chasing greatness. That doesn't happen everyday, babies do. 350 thousand times a day
 
This is actually very much in the realm of something LeBron talked about a little while back when he apologized to his wife for how selfish he's had to be over the course of his career to get where he's at.

To make it to that level of the profession there's a certain selfishness you have to have to be that great. And the people around you basically sign up for the ride with that understanding that there's gonna be times that you both want to be there but you can't. It's not right...it's not wrong. It's just the reality of being with someone who has committed that much time, energy and focus to their career.
 
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Something basic versus something extraordinary

Exactly.

Kids are born everyday.

In order to be great, that requires sacrifices.

In order to be with someone great, it requires sacrifices.

She knew what she signed up for when she met me.

I ain't no regular ass man that is going to be there whenever you need me.

She can go cry in a Toyota or she can go cry in a Cybertruck.

I'm going to the game.
 
I hate to be that guy but I imagine quality of life plays a big part in mortality when it comes to giving birth. It's safe to say that a nba wife is getting the best healthcare during pregnancy and during birth. The chances of death will be extremely reduced.
 
Exactly.

Kids are born everyday.

In order to be great, that requires sacrifices.

In order to be with someone great, it requires sacrifices.

She knew what she signed up for when she met me.

I ain't no regular ass man that is going to be there whenever you need me.

She can go cry in a Toyota or she can go cry in a Cybertruck.

I'm going to the game.
Baby mama has a greater risk of dying in the cybertruck than giving birth.
 
I hate to be that guy but I imagine quality of life plays a big part in mortality when it comes to giving birth. It's safe to say that a nba wife is getting the best healthcare during pregnancy and during birth. The chances of death will be extremely reduced.

Didnt Serena Williams famously have an issue with her childbirth? If I remember correctly the doctors/nurses werent listening to her when she kept saying something was wrong but she insisted
 
I hate to be that guy but I imagine quality of life plays a big part in mortality when it comes to giving birth. It's safe to say that a nba wife is getting the best healthcare during pregnancy and during birth. The chances of death will be extremely reduced.
That's not a poor people problem lol.
 
fact remains is that even with the money and "best of care" the shit could have killed her cuz they werent listening to her concerns which tends to happen moreso with black women
Is that really a fact or something you are saying? You got cdc numbers to back this claim of women dying bcuz doctors are not listening to concerns?
 
Is that really a fact or something you are saying? You got cdc numbers to back this claim of women dying bcuz doctors are not listening to concerns?

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