My ire nor my sexless virgin comment isn't towards you specifically, so don't take it personally.
I'm just tired of this narrative that black woman are the only ones looking for security from their mate.
It's not that.
It's that Black women don't know how to tell a good lie about what they want.
The key to a good relationship is lying.
Let me tell you, CashApp and Venmo has unlocked the thirstiness in the Black American dating age population.
These young brothers paying for hair and nails, paying rent, contributing to apartment down payments...
And of course, men are behind like 3 generations on how to deal with this.
Men still believe and give out the expectation that they should provide for women and women are capable of doing it themselves.
Other races of women know how to embed their desire for financial security in actually loving a man. Asian women got Western husbands taking care of their entire family.
Black women just straight up tell a nigga, "I need money."
And then say shit like, I can't be in be in my feminine if everything isn't taken care of lol.
And White hoes, literal sugar babies have taken on the same language.
Trick and hoe behavior has disseminated from Hip Hop into how young Black Americans view romance.
It's literally trick and hoe behavior out here. It's not dating.