OPINION How soon is too soon to catch feelings?

[Chicity]

Whenever TS is crying into his 3rd bag of edibles about why he is forever alone, I hope he looks no further than this thread

Putting time restraints on unquantifiable things puts you in a box my g. Time waits for no man, if you feel it, leap

 

[AP2.5]

woooo saaaah

 

[1/2]

i catch feelings if you smell good and laugh at my jokes, sooo


dont fuck around and make me nuthin to eat......im yo problem now

 

[Loquacious]

woooo saaaah

So what’s your timetable on catching feelings?

You talk to people for months on end with no feelings involved?

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

Putting time restraints on unquantifiable things puts you in a box my g. Time waits for no man, if you feel it, leap

He’s right you know.

 

[AP2.5]

So what’s your timetable on catching feelings?

You talk to people for months on end with no feelings involved?

i have b/c i know me and my personality

I know my strengths and weaknesses and I know that sometimes those things might appear to be offputing to some females, and I'm ok with that b/c im not super rigid in how i view things or myself. I understand my flaws and limitations as a man and try to navigate through that with consideration as to how this might make someone feel.

I think a solid sample size is about 9 months

As I mentioned previously, outside of some glaring red flags, I think a lot of times, people tend to look past certain things in the name of being smitten by the person they are pursuing or being pursued by. I think by 9-12 months, SOMETHING will have happened to allow you to see that person outside of the aura of smitteness that has been keeping them in your good favor. Now how the both of yall respond to said situation to me, will ultimately determine if the feelings will get to a place where its worth you investing more time with them.

 

[Mooney]

The love at first sight catch phrase is true to this meaning...said person can be the dream guy/girl you've always desired..they were thrust in your path for a reason...make that reason the season to throw that jersey up in the rafters

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[BDP™️]

:huh5:

Catch Feelings???!!

 

[Sony Montana]

Catching feelings is caring about someone deeper than surface level

If you talk everyday this can be achieved in a month

 

[Duwop]

catching feelings is when you start making considerations for them in your life.....

 

[BDP™️]

:huh5:

Catch Feelings???!!

But seriously it really depends on the person

some people are more open and allow themselves to be vulnerable enough to "catch feelings"

other folks guard themselves like Ft Knox

 

[Sony Montana]

I've done it in less btw twice

I've loved someone in a month and I still love her. She was great

 

[Loquacious]

This nigga said nine months.

FOH

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

Yeah it shouldn’t take that long to know how you feel about somebody.

 

[Sony Montana]

AP you gotta unlock your heart playa

 

[Reesey]

No such thing.

 

[AP2.5]

This nigga said nine months.

FOH

i wont

to Du's point, when you start trying to plan them into your daily life, then you've caught feelings

 

[AP2.5]

Yeah it shouldn’t take that long to know how you feel about somebody.

why not?

I can like her or the idea of her

they are not the same

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

why not?

I can like her or the idea of her

they are not the same

9 months is a long time to be romantically involved with someone and not have some kind of emotional development for that person.

There has to be a spark long before that.

 

[Loquacious]

i wont

to Du's point, when you start trying to plan them into your daily life, then you've caught feelings

Which can happen in 2 months.


Like I said.