Judge Dread
Active Member
I don't know everyone that post here. As we are a community I didn't want to offend anyone here or lurkers that might take my comments as devisive or anything.
"Let's just be friends"
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Judge Dread
Active Member
And we do have at least 1 person here that has experience with the same sex.
Wait wait!
How are S/O not best friends?
How are S/O not best friends?
nah...the friend zone, in its traditional sense was that you tell a chick you like her, she hits you with the "ooooohhh...awww...im sorry...i just dont look at you like that. I think of you more as a friend"...
all im saying is, embrace that shit.
What you describe is a person in denial and have delusions
to me, a best friend is someone you have certain things that only the two of you are primarily interested in
like its cool if yo girl dont mind watching the game or go to the gun range with you or whatever, but if she is doing it out of obligation b/c as your s/o she just likes spending time with you, that is commendable, but thats not the first thing she thinks of when it comes to time being spent with each other
your best friend is the person you can do those things with b/c ya'll both have a genuine interest in the activity. If ya girl just so happens to genuinely enjoy those things, then thats icing on the cake, but i dont think you necessarily HAVE to have that dynamic in your relationship...just my .02
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Judge Dread
Active Member
Who the cap fits, let them wear it. You know we are e cousins.We do?
I'm tryna be best friends with my nigga.
Golden
Administrator
what did u do?
Baldheadlogic
Beardologist
It would most definitely hurt because those I call my best friends are considered more like my family than my blood relatives. I wouldn't put them in that position, if I don't like he/she I always was atleast cordial. BUT if their s/o wants them to cut me off, I'll be concerned and will voice my opinion loud and clear!
Baldheadlogic
Beardologist
The s/o being your best friend can be a little tricky. My dude and I have similar taste in a few activities and we also bring new things to share with each other. However, just like AP said, there are things I don't mind that I'm not a part of because I'm genuinely not interested in and vice versa.
I love the optimism
I've had to use the "let's just be friends" line a few times, but every time it was because we were already friends. If a stranger tries it and I'm not interested, then I'm just not interested. I don't extend my friendship hand. But with guys I've been friends with for forever who randomly try it, they get the friend zone treatment.
Az
Beautifully Crazy...
Well put and that's usually how I handle my situations no matter if I know them on a friend type of ish or not.
First think that come out my mouth is I don't jump into relationships from one hour to the next.
It's let's chill and see where it goes see if I'm feelin you and you feelin me and take it from there...
Az
Beautifully Crazy...
Look what I am saying is once I dated you,so if a dude piped you down proper, he staying in the friend zone?
Believe what yu want but my abstinence should say other wise...
and If for some reason it didn't work out even if the sex was amazing.
I don't backtrack like that I can't get you out the friend zone it's just how I am...