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BNE said:
I'd be more afraid of having a boy personally. I'm sure I'd overcome it quick if I had 1 but the concept is intimidating.
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Having a child in this world is scary regardless of gender. But for me I thought before he was born that it would be easier to have a son. This lil Ras is bouncing of the wall and going crazy but mentally my thought process and teaching is different for him than it would be for a daugher. Not easier but different.
 
AP21 said:
fam, i mean, with both genders, you do the best YOU can to raise them

teach them morals, principles, etc...and at some point THEY become responsible for the decisions they make

but we gotta stop this belief that having a daughter is more mentally draining than a son. Kids are mentally draining period
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No I didn't mean more draining. I meant just different. I know everyone thinks everything is equal but I can teach him certain things and luckily he has a mother for balance. The same would be for a daughter but her mother would be her primary source for feminine related things. I know in modern times people think a woman can properly rap teach I son everything and I man can teach a daughter everything but I don't.
 
When it comes to some things I still believe in balance. I was partly raised by a single mother. She would play sports with me but shaving your face is not the same as shaving your legs. I don't mean to be disrespectful but their are things that mothers/ woman are more familiar with than fathers/ men and vice versa.
 
Lurker10 said:
No I didn't mean more draining. I meant just different. I know everyone thinks everything is equal but I can teach him certain things and luckily he has a mother for balance. The same would be for a daughter but her mother would be her primary source for feminine related things. I know in modern times people think a woman can properly rap teach I son everything and I man can teach a daughter everything but I don't.
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ok...we are getting somewhere

i think the key is balance
 
Lurker10 said:
When it comes to some things I still believe in balance. I was partly raised by a single mother. She would play sports with me but shaving your face is not the same as shaving your legs. I don't mean to be disrespectful but their are things that mothers/ woman are more familiar with than fathers/ men and vice versa.
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well fwiw, no one taught me to shave

and my mother taught me to drive her stick shift vehicle

stepfather taught me how to fix lil stuff on one of my old beater cars

i taught myself to cook, but i watched my mother for years but there was never any "ok son, you need to come see how i cook so you can learn on your own"
 
Again, I understand that everyone wants the genders to be equal in every way possible but there is a reason why there are two genders. There are differences.
 
AP21 said:
well fwiw, no one taught me to shave

and my mother taught me to drive her stick shift vehicle

stepfather taught me how to fix lil stuff on one of my old beater cars

i taught myself to cook, but i watched my mother for years but there was never any "ok son, you need to come see how i cook so you can learn on your own"
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You had the balance of a step father and trust me mothers are out here doing way too much because a lot are fathers are not around so they have to. That is why I stated the the lioness leads the pride. For the most part she has a lot more things that she has to worry about. I don't know too many men that wake up thinking about how will I raise these kids if she leaves or something. We would hopefully step up if she did but that is not a concern that we are built with. Women have to think about that because more than likely she would have the kids. I am just pointing out one difference. Their struggle is different than ours as men. So their teaching can't be the same as ours.
 
AP21 said:
they both need love tho

degrees of love imo are irrelevant
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Again Bretheren, I hope we all love our kids regardless of gender or anything else. I am just saying the teaching can not be the same and I am not talking about schooling. I am talking about life teachings.
 
King Du said:
Yea I thought of that...

Holla'd at some folk who I thought might be in to it,, and they never jumped....

If I come across more folk that might be into filming I'll definitely try again....

Man I be having ideas.. I gotta nephew who is an artist,,I let him read some shit months ago and was like he should work up accompanying art, and maybe we can do a graphic novel....


I mean, that sounds good,, but I'm kinda in the position where I need folk who believe in the work and are willing to move on it...

Unfortunately at this stage in life,, I can't really put my personal resources into these things....

That's why I'm so loose with passing it around.... I can write..... But it's going to really be tough to do o everything on my own right now.... I need folk
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I hear you but that was the point of hollering at the high school and college students because they're working with limited resources as well but they have the passion to do it.

My suggestion would be to start making little flyers with some contact info and put them up or pass them around the campuses to let the folks know what you're trying to get done.

You can make a flyer with a pen/marker and some paper.
 
Yo, I swear we can't get it right....

This little girl came out screaming and fussing a storm

Making THE EXACT SAME FACE my son makes when he's in full asshole mode....

The same damn face....everybody that came in the room like

"Oh noooo she get mad just like Amir"
:smh:

Lawd, why do this to us again?? Why couldn't we get a sweet docile child? She sleep now.... As long as she's warm and fed she good....

But this kid cries way too loud when she pissed....

Nurses keep saying "ooh she gonna have a singing voice"

:scust2:

Them is cries mam....extremely high pitched, and abnormally loud cries....

And I'm certain if you give her one more needle so she can start up again......imma donkey kick you
 
King Du said:
Yo, I swear we can't get it right....

This little girl came out screaming and fussing a storm

Making THE EXACT SAME FACE my son makes when he's in full asshole mode....

The same damn face....everybody that came in the room like

"Oh noooo she get mad just like Amir"
:smh:

Lawd, why do this to us again?? Why couldn't we get a sweet docile child? She sleep now.... As long as she's warm and fed she good....

But this kid cries way too loud when she pissed....

Nurses keep saying "ooh she gonna have a singing voice"

:scust2:

Them is cries mam....extremely high pitched, and abnormally loud cries....

And I'm certain if you give her one more needle so she can start up again......imma donkey kick you
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I am sure she is going to have you wrapped around her finger. Enjoy the screams of a healthy baby.
 
Lurker10 said:
I am sure she is going to have you wrapped around her finger. Enjoy the screams of a healthy baby.
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Thanks Bruh....

I was so excited at first cuz those lungs were so strong, and she a little thing....

Then I went into daddy mode

" light little girl, dont wake up the whole floor"
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