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Fellas, Just Ask the ladies...

ladies...lets say you have met a new dude...you definitely feel instantly that you are sexually attracted to him or whatever

how soon is it to talk about sex? I'm not saying actual sex, but just talking about it?
sex as a topic? or talkin bout sex with each other?

cuz my answer is go with the flow 2 both, but talkin bout it generally can happen sooner than talkin bout the prospect of gettin it on with each other simply cuz its less personal
 
how do you play it when you have clearly moved on to another topic, but he keeps making innuendos trying to go back to that part of the convo?
No further dates. He's making it clear that's what his primary objective is if he's really tryna break up the flow of conversation for more sex talk.
 
how do you play it when you have clearly moved on to another topic, but he keeps making innuendos trying to go back to that part of the convo?

It depends because I may have felt the conversation was over and he may have still felt like he needed to say more. So I'd carry on with the conversation until it's really over. Now, if comes back with it then I'm gonna tell his ass to chill.
 
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Ladies...how long into the relationship you begin to get comfortable and "let your hair down" per se?

Like walkin around wearing your bummy clothes. Not having your hair did up. No make-up. Talkin dead in his face after waking up, wit your breath smellin like fermented cabbage water.
 
Ladies...how long into the relationship you begin to get comfortable and "let your hair down" per se?

Like walkin around wearing your bummy clothes. Not having your hair did up. No make-up. Talkin dead in his face after waking up, wit your breath smellin like fermented cabbage water.

Well I don't wear make up, but for the rest probably about 6 months or so in.
 
Ladies...how long into the relationship you begin to get comfortable and "let your hair down" per se?

Like walkin around wearing your bummy clothes. Not having your hair did up. No make-up. Talkin dead in his face after waking up, wit your breath smellin like fermented cabbage water.

2 weeks.

I need to give you a preview of what youre about to be dealing with for the rest of your life.
No make-up, messy bun and a lot of debauchery.
 
Ladies...how long into the relationship you begin to get comfortable and "let your hair down" per se?

Like walkin around wearing your bummy clothes. Not having your hair did up. No make-up. Talkin dead in his face after waking up, wit your breath smellin like fermented cabbage water.
I don't wear makeup or get my hair professionally styled unless there's a professional reason, so he'll see all that from day 1. As far as morning breath, I guess when we start waking up together, unless we don't talk until finished freshening up (one wakes up earlier for work or summin)? My bummy clothes r my loungewear, which again they'd see if they're sleeping with me. So it's either day 1 or when we start sleeping together or cohabitating. Haven't thought about it enough to put a time-frame on it.
 
Ladies...how long into the relationship you begin to get comfortable and "let your hair down" per se?

Like walkin around wearing your bummy clothes. Not having your hair did up. No make-up. Talkin dead in his face after waking up, wit your breath smellin like fermented cabbage water.

Soon as he comes to my house (not the cabbage breath ew) but like others I wear very little to no makeup and I am generally low maintenance so what you see is what you get for the most part. My face looks very much the same as when I wake up.

Ladies do you care if your man shaves or trims his pubic hair?

It's nice to not have a forest down there but doesnt have to be shaved.
 
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6 months??

Yes. the only time I "let my hair down" is when I'm at home. I didn't let a man come to my house all willy nilly because of my son. If the by chance a man came over before 6 months, he's not staying long....
 
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