Fabolous Reportedly Arrested For Domestic Violence

Like_Water said:
Initially I was gonna say, “call the cops”, but that’s a death sentence for any black man. Shit, bruh. Iono. I keep heat on me like it’s my wallet, but then I’d be fucked if I didn’t use it correctly. I’m a trained fighter, but that could also get me fucked up, if it’s not used properly. Not to mention, I have a wife and son who are my priority.

There are no easy answers here. I may hafta go with my knee-jerk reaction and say “call the cops”, and hope the nigga doesn’t do anything to get himself murked. That poses the least amount of risk to myself, and since it doesn’t involve me, is probably the most I should do to get involved.
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thank you for your honesty
 
DOS_patos said:
@Infamous114
dont wack the shit....speak up.

yall niggas like to call bullshit until called to action.

tell me im wrong about what i said.

niggas talking mad shit in here but aint doing shit to stop shit like this in our communities outside of calling a nigga a pussy?
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that nigga a striaght bitch . dont say shit but lurks and gives niggas wack and feelings .
 
and heres the thing....im not going to talk tough and say i woulda or shoulda.....we all are not fighters....but that dont mean we cant do our part to stop this shit.

the shit would not be soo rampant if all the niggas in here talking that shit was actually following up and being fathers and brothers and uncles.\

like i have been saying ....Black men need to stand up.

ole point fingers at the end but not at the beginning as niggas
 
The disappointment is you, I'm not the one following guys around a message board trying to flirt. This is getting old so ignore is where you go PePe
 
HellCzar said:
So Dos asking us to keep the same energy
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yep.....this same energy......keep it offline to not allow shit like this to happen in the first place.

while some shit will still happen...niggas are feeling real free with they hands because no one stops them or gives legit threats or beatdowns...and even after the beatdown, your female family member needs to be out and not use it as a teaching tactic to belittle a nigga.

even if yall dont want to get that deep into it......put that energy into making sure all family members understand what abuse is.

hitting is just the most talked about form...but not the most common
 
DOS_patos said:
yep.....this same energy......keep it offline to not allow shit like this to happen in the first place.

while some shit will still happen...niggas are feeling real free with they hands because no one stops them or gives legit threats or beatdowns...and even after the beatdown, your female family member needs to be out and not use it as a teaching tactic to belittle a nigga.

even if yall dont want to get that deep into it......put that energy into making sure all family members understand what abuse is.

hitting is just the most talked about form...but not the most common
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Before my wife and I got together, my sister-in-law was in an abusive relationship with her husband. She was beaten multiple times. Her father threatened the dude with physical harm, and he was bout that life, but ol’ boy always managed to stay off the radar just long enough.

She had two girls with this loser and she always ran back to dude. After awhile her father just gave up and was like, “Fuck I’m a risk goin to jail for if she gon end up with the nigga anyway?” It took her a long time of getting her face beaten in before she finally left though.

I don’t know the type of logic that goes down with the women that can endure this type of abuse and stress.
 
Like_Water said:
Before my wife and I got together, my sister-in-law was in an abusive relationship with her husband. She was beaten multiple times. Her father threatened the dude with physical harm, and he was bout that life, but ol’ boy always managed to stay off the radar just long enough.

She had two girls with this loser and she always ran back to dude. After awhile her father just gave up and was like, “Fuck I’m a risk goin to jail for if she gon end up with the nigga anyway?” It took her a long time of getting her face beaten in before she finally left though.

I don’t know the type of logic that goes down with the women that can endure this type of abuse and stress.
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you said the key word...logic

there is none or very little

abusers have this uncanny ability to really tear down someone's self worth to the point where the abused actually believe the things the abuser says

stuff like "you leave me, who else gon want you"...and thats really all it takes in a lot of instances
 
AP21 said:
you said the key word...logic

there is none or very little

abusers have this uncanny ability to really tear down someone's self worth to the point where the abused actually believe the things the abuser says

stuff like "you leave me, who else gon want you"...and thats really all it takes in a lot of instances
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I guess so. My sister-in-law is a really pretty girl too. I feel the same way about Emily B. I feel like this happens a lot to attractive women. I’ve run across so many women that you would think would have all the confidence in the world, and in turns out that they have real demons pertaining to self-esteem.

Men can smell a woman with low self-worth a mile away. Most times we just use it to our advantage to fuck. But men with their own insecurity and self-esteem issues usually take that shit to another level. Shit is disgusting.
 
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