I was thinking the other day how dope it would be to meet someone that is sexually free but in positive way.
By that I mean it seems like the way people understand sexual freedom is that someone has to be submissive and the other person dominant.
So any kinky or freak shit, it’s always someone that’s being demeaned. So it would be dope to meet someone thats sexually explorative but it’s about the experience of what you’re doing and doesn’t have to demean anyone.
I personally think it’s dope to be in the heat of passionate animalistic sex that could lead to both of you choking each other or slapping each other or just overal aggression, even having spit involved.
But at no point does any action have the intent to demean the partner. I legit don’t like women saying that their my dirty bitch or my nasty slut. Why does you liking this sex or what we are doing, have to make you something demeaning in order for you to enjoy it?
Why do you want to revert to something demeaning to be able to put yourself in the mindframe to enjoy what’s happening to you?
Imagine having such sex and making a pact before you start to find other ways to express yourself during. How much more would that go towards sexually freeing yourself to indulge more and enjoy it and not feel any shame afterward?