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OPINION Sticking around or planning to leave

Most Americans in general rarely travel outside their state. So I find it hard to believe that many would leave their home country to actually live. Lol. Most folks are content and don't want to leave their comfort zone, which also plays a factor in even thinking about living abroad.

I've lived abroad before and the only thing truly keeping me in this country is my mother. She is getting older and is super set in her ways. She likes to travel but is still very leery ( she took a cruise before COVID) about going out of the country. I've tried to get her a passport on multiple occasions and she just spends the money or "loses" (air quotes around loses) the applications I've filled out for her. Lol. She literally refuses to leave the city and state she is in now. She is comfortable (eventhough it's slot of stuff she doesn't like about there) with what she knows.

She is like most people, content...........

There is nothing wrong with being content with a situation and also pointing out that it could be better....

Anyway, when she passes (I dread that day, because she is my world) I will leave the United States of America and most likely never come back here. She and all my family knows this....
Where you moving to?
 
Fuck these Cacs. I ain’t goin nowhere.

Let em come to the boroughs with this goofy shit. We fightin all that stupid shit.
 
Where you moving to?

One of my closest friends is Pinoy aka Filipino, he keeps trying to get me to buy land out there so, that is definitely a highly likely place. Another is Costa Rica or Panama. I've been to both places and the cost of living is nice, the weather is good, and if shit hits the fan I could drive back to the States. LMAO. It would be an awful drive but it's actually possible.

I also have another homie who is from St. Vincent and bought a beautiful house out there for him and his family. He keeps telling me about land there and how beautiful the island is. I've never been there and I need to go when he goes home. He is currently in Puerto Rico with his family and I love that place. It's an American territory so that doesn't count. Lol.

I most likely will end up in Central America or South East Asia due to cost of living and just the chill nature.
 
One of my closest friends is Pinoy aka Filipino, he keeps trying to get me to buy land out there so, that is definitely a highly likely place. Another is Costa Rica or Panama. I've been to both places and the cost of living is nice, the weather is good, and if shit hits the fan I could drive back to the States. LMAO. It would be an awful drive but it's actually possible.

I also have another homie who is from St. Vincent and bought a beautiful house out there for him and his family. He keeps telling me about land there and how beautiful the island is. I've never been there and I need to go when he goes home. He is currently in Puerto Rico with his family and I love that place. It's an American territory so that doesn't count. Lol.

I most likely will end up in Central America or South East Asia due to cost of living and just the chill nature.

Dope! You speak any of the languages?
 
I've lived in a variety of different places.

To be honest with you, once you can grasp the language of a foreign country and it's politics, you realize it's all the same shit. Like, I am pretty sure someone from the Philippines or El Salvador would come to America and think what we go through is light compared to their home. If you not coming from a less developed nation to rich developed, nation your improved quality of life will just be perception shift, it won't be reality.

When people talk about why another country is better because it has better politics or whatever, they are looking from the outside in. You are not embedded in that country's history or culture.

It's why immigrants can come to America and call it the best country on Earth. Of course it is, you are not American like a Black American whose bloodlines descends from slaves. It's not the same thing.

Most of America's drama is soap opera bullshit orchestrated by people who are detached from the everyday life in America.

The problems in America don't get fixed, not because we are unable to fix them, not because the everyday citizens don't want to fix them, but because the ruling class in America has no interest in Americans.

Once you reach a certain amount of wealth in America, and it starts at like, 50 million in networth. You are pretty detached from socio-economic and political realities that plague the everyday person in the country. Most of these long sitting politicians are millionaires...and that's anywhere.

There's very few good, stable and rich countries in the world, and despite it's bullshit, America is one of them.

Most humans are shit, therefore most countries are shit. Go there, learn the language, work there and you will realize it's fucked up just like the place you left.
 
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Dope! You speak any of the languages?

Heck no.... lol

I know like a few tagalog and Spanish sayings and phrases. One thing I wish I did do growing up was learn a different language. I've tried on an off to learn Brazilian Portuguese and more Japanese but, I'm too damn lazy. I will say while in Japan I was retaining more and using more. I knew a guy who really studied though. He knew how to write a decent amount in hiragana and of course we all remembered kanji do to signs and such. Lol
 
Heck no.... lol

I know like a few tagalog and Spanish sayings and phrases. One thing I wish I did do growing up was learn a different language. I've tried on an off to learn Brazilian Portuguese and more Japanese but, I'm too damn lazy. I will say while in Japan I was retaining more and using more. I knew a guy who really studied though. He knew how to write a decent amount in hiragana and of course we all remembered kanji do to signs and such. Lol

Once I was able to read, speak and write Japanese when I was there , I regretted it.

I was like, Japan is a fucked up place, got damn.

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Soon as black go to another country in large numbers that country will change and them white folks gon no different than here. Same for Asian countries.
 
I've seen Costa Rica and Panama on quite a few lists of where alot of Americans go to retire

The cost of living is pretty good and the weather is nice. Panama takes American dollars also. Health care is decent, beaches, and both countries openly tru and get foreigners to retire there because it helps the economy
 
I always wanted to see what living in Canada is like and having a kid has me really considering it. I got way more research to do though because I heard the French over there be bugging. I'm kind of over living in the south but not tryna pay East Coast/West Coast prices
 
Wifey’s from a very dangerous country with very corrupt politicians.

Aint no sense in moving there…. You have that in the U.S.

Might as well stay here.

I visited her country and felt totally safe, though… But, then again, I didn’t know any better.
 
I fucks with inori and I like the premise of the thread.

im only here for a few reasons.
Other than that, I got places to go to watch it burn.
 
If I move, its gotta be a to a place where the language is English, and there isnt culture shock.

In other words, Canada.

I keep telling my peoples we gotta make it happen. I think they starting to come around.
 
If I move, its gotta be a to a place where the language is English, and there isnt culture shock.

In other words, Canada.

I keep telling my peoples we gotta make it happen. I think they starting to come around.

I dont really mind a culture shock.. but I would prefer if most folks spoke english though. Id attempt to learn the language but would like to fall back to English if I needed to
 
Y'all might remember from the old spot that we were seriously trying to move to Belize. People look like us, it's mostly English speaking, there's a good number of ex-pats there from the US and Canada along with a grip of Chinese. Shit was lookin lovely 'cause the US dollar is twice the Belize dollar, you could rent a giant ass crib that walks out to a pool AND the ocean for the cost of a house-house here in Vegas. Spoke with BTC (the telcom out there) and the fastest internet speed at the time was 20Mbps, which was doable for my work. Everything looked great and the area we were focued on, Corozal District, just seemed perfect especially considering we could drive to Cancun from there in just a few hours and could drive all the way back to the US if we really needed to.

Then we spoke to expats living there...

Shit is def a third world country. They don't really like anybody lookin like they got money over there. You lookin a lil too clean? Clothes fashionable like a rapper's video??? You'll likely get jacked for your shit. Your jewels will make you a target. Cops are corrupt as fuck as is the case in most 3rd world countries and will get pissy if your bribe ain't enough in their eyes. There are gangs in the major cities that make our shit look like boy scouts. Even though we look like them, the moment we open our mouths they'll know we ain't one of them and we're now targets. I heard stories about folks getting their crib ran up in, a chick had a chain snatched off her neck ever so casually by two dudes walking by her crib while she was in the yard, horror stories about folks gettin' hemmed up by the cops until they broke 'em off.

Panama and PR were on the list too, but neither of us speaks Spanish so we were like "fuck that" and ended up moving into another crib here.
 
I dont really mind a culture shock.. but I would prefer if most folks spoke english though. Id attempt to learn the language but would like to fall back to English if I needed to

100%. Which is why Id consider Scandanavia or Costa Rica as well.
 
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