Unpopular opinion: this is partly y u shldnt have more kids than u can handle raising on ur own.false false false
some women have just had the misfortune of having kids for aint shit niggas
What's your support system like KandyPants? Also, are there any other single mothers in your circle?As a single mother, I can understand why this is being said because some women do get with men for help. It does get trying at times.
However for me, I date for love. I love, love. I don't expect a man to be helpful when it's dealing with my child. That's what his father is for. I don't make my son their problem or burden, for lack of a better word. Its hella rare, I even let a man meet my child before I think we are serious. If he wanted to help after we got serious, it would be hard for me to accept but I'd be more open to it.
What's your support system like KandyPants? Also, are there any other single mothers in your circle?
Thanks for answering.All my friends are single mothers, except one or two. I only Have a few real friends. Majority of us get help from the dad. However, I have a great support system. His daddy, A team of grandparents and uncles and aunts, that's always willing to help me out with my son, when needed and unneeded.
Thanks for answering.
You mentioned that some women do get with men for help, I was wondering if u have personally known any single mothers who did/do that? Its one of those things I see discussed online but never IRL.
Damnn. ShamefulOh hell yes! I know a few personally.
One of them has a motto, "if he can't help me pay these bills or with thes kids, I don't want him."
Damnn. Shameful
Trollin or nah, Parsley?Yes it is for help.
Trollin or nah, Parsley?