Welcome To aBlackWeb

is kevin samuels... “you know”

Dude has produced several marriages, black women have made youtube videos thanking the dude for helping their marriages.

I don't see anything wrong with him wanting black men and black women to live in their reality. He goes in hard on black men, men should wanna work over 60 hours, get in shape, do this, do that, be the better person, make yourself valuable, become a leader, provider etc. He tells black men the truth.

Many of the men took the advice, set goals and got their life together and thank'd the dude.

Crazy thing about it is, I never heard black men attack his character or act hurt, or say that he talked rudely to them when he told them the truth about themselves.

Working over 60 hours hell the fuck nah
 
My response is more so from the comments i see in here. I dont follow or watch this cat so im not gonna judge or give an opinion on him.

Yes, there are delusional people. But some people really need to seek real counseling . Tearing down people rarely gets the point across to them. Im willing to bet most of his callers are mentally fragile so probably few will take the verbal bashing as motivation to "do better".

People have their preferences. People tend to figure that out as they get older. Older folks tend to want someone on their financial level because many have experienced dating people who make a lot less than them. If one person is down on their luck or got injured, they want to make sure their partner can maintain both of their lifestyles until the other is back on their feet.

Social media is not reality. That means if you go into a certain thread/site/chat group, looking for a certain group of people that have similar opinions, then that is all you will find. That is when people make generalizations . "all women this", "all men this", "most women/men". When you ask for proof, they pull post from that group. When you go outside, you realize that what they are talking about is not the norm.

These women that some of these dudes talk about, I have trouble running into. Last few dates i went on were females with careers not looking for a dude to take care of them. They just wanted a true partnership. Someone to build together with, love, support, and have some mutual interest. When some women say they dont need a man. Some mean they dont need to depend on a man for their lively hood or their emotional happiness. I applaud all of that and find it attractive. I dont think anyone should have too depend on someone for their lively hood if they can prevent it. If you dont know what makes you happy, why do you think someone else will know what makes you happy. That is when that person needs to take a step back and seek counseling from a pro.


Period
 
My response is more so from the comments i see in here. I dont follow or watch this cat so im not gonna judge or give an opinion on him.

Yes, there are delusional people. But some people really need to seek real counseling . Tearing down people rarely gets the point across to them. Im willing to bet most of his callers are mentally fragile so probably few will take the verbal bashing as motivation to "do better".

People have their preferences. People tend to figure that out as they get older. Older folks tend to want someone on their financial level because many have experienced dating people who make a lot less than them. If one person is down on their luck or got injured, they want to make sure their partner can maintain both of their lifestyles until the other is back on their feet.

Social media is not reality. That means if you go into a certain thread/site/chat group, looking for a certain group of people that have similar opinions, then that is all you will find. That is when people make generalizations . "all women this", "all men this", "most women/men". When you ask for proof, they pull post from that group. When you go outside, you realize that what they are talking about is not the norm.

These women that some of these dudes talk about, I have trouble running into. Last few dates i went on were females with careers not looking for a dude to take care of them. They just wanted a true partnership. Someone to build together with, love, support, and have some mutual interest. When some women say they dont need a man. Some mean they dont need to depend on a man for their lively hood or their emotional happiness. I applaud all of that and find it attractive. I dont think anyone should have too depend on someone for their lively hood if they can prevent it. If you dont know what makes you happy, why do you think someone else will know what makes you happy. That is when that person needs to take a step back and seek counseling from a pro.


This post makes no sense, in the last paragraph, you speak about women with careers, women have jobs, many don't have "careers", but let's go with that, these "so call" women have careers, Many of these career women are the ones calling up to KS show wanting to be married)

Again, only 9% of black women make over 75k, and many black women make around 37k. Those salaries are not career salaries.

You say that these women want companionship, then they should be ok with talking to a regular 9-5 man, but in the paragraph above you mentioned that ppl don't want anyone making less money than them, mainly women because Men are told to be providers.

Many women preach stability so the whole notion about them not needing a man....eh..

If these career women want companionship, then the whole these ppl don't prefer men making less than them, shouldn't have been written. You can get love, support, mutual interest from someone making less than them.

As stated, you can't beat nature, many women want to get married, and you stated that you don't watch the show, but what you have described are these career women (nurses, teachers,) wanting these high earning men.

On his show, there are women who speak just what you have stated and Kevin breaks all of that down, women say that they don't want a man's money but won't date a man making less than them??
Say what??

Women don't need a man, but want a man to be a provider? Huh. As stated, you don't watch his show, but this is exactly why the women that call in, these women with so call careers, get a reality check real quick.
 
So lemme get this straight....I as a black woman had a yt channel/sm platform that was gaining popularity telling the world what black men are about under the guise of helping women...and i used these typa images to draw ppl in

young-thug-gun-24508217.jpg


cropped-image-african-american-prisoner-260nw-1030270435.jpg


Knoxville_Adam-Dewayne-Holmes-and-Kenneth-Lamont-Cox-mug_0325221.jpg


023f4aaa4ab75c5dab975421d9c22ee1.jpg


jay-williams-34-kids.jpg


D4Z8s4SXsAAf-rx.jpg



Yall giving me a pass cuz I tell the truth using FBI crime statistics and say stuff you agree with....and it's provocative and gets the ppl going? Word?

Not even looking for a response to this cuz it's not a debate.
 
Exactly. He says a lot "What's wrong with a regular guy?" "Can you be with a man eating 50k/year" and stuff like that. It's the ones with baggage that think those men are below them that get harsh realities.

I think I made the comparison in here before. It's like if someone's in school to be a teacher, but they won't take a job that pays under $100k. It's not fucked up to tell them they need to change their major if they want that kind of money. But if they want to be a teacher, they need to consider jobs that pay less.

But he starts off by asking them "How much do you want to make?" If they said $40k he'd tell them they're on the right path. Not his fault everyone wants to make 6 figures, and he has to tell them people don't pay that much for teachers.

That's the part where women don't call other women out on...the nonsense of passing up these hard working guys to try and nab you a high earning man.

You couldn't make the regular men you had happy but you expect to make a high earner man happy and you're bringing baggage to the table??

Lizzo big ass trying to shoot her shot at Captain America and you got women, black women championing that nonsense but when a 300 plus black man tries to shoot his shot at RiRi, the women are on some, look at this goofy ass fat nigga, he wrong for that...
 
So lemme get this straight....I as a black woman had a yt channel/sm platform that was gaining popularity telling the world what black men are about under the guise of helping women...and i used these typa images to draw ppl in

young-thug-gun-24508217.jpg


cropped-image-african-american-prisoner-260nw-1030270435.jpg


Knoxville_Adam-Dewayne-Holmes-and-Kenneth-Lamont-Cox-mug_0325221.jpg


023f4aaa4ab75c5dab975421d9c22ee1.jpg


jay-williams-34-kids.jpg


D4Z8s4SXsAAf-rx.jpg



Yall giving me a pass cuz I tell the truth using FBI crime statistics and say stuff you agree with....and it's provocative and gets the ppl going? Word?

Not even looking for a response to this cuz it's not a debate.


You're moving the goal posts.

Black women want a high earning man. These black women have attitudes, sassy, don't listen, out of shape, liars, and they are snarly with their remarks, a man worth that type of money will not look at these women.

But you are trying to shift blame of Kevin for explaining to these women that they need to change their ways??
 
Niggas that watch his videos keep quoting me telling me what he says in the videos when I've made it abundantly clear that's not what my point is....
 
If it's not about his show or him, why are you moving the goal posts talking about something totally different. Moot

We are talking about what the message is and what's coming from his platform, what he tells black women what they need to do to get these high earner men that they want.

What these high earning black men want from a black women. The men are all in the YT comments stating their view, along with women.

Moving the goal post is tryin to run from the truth.

Even the other men from other race see how black women speak toward Kevin, Kevin don't have to broadcast anything negative about black women, just listen to the callers that call his show.

White men use black women attitude to protect their money and product, thus why they are always in customer service. One of the coldest quote said by a black woman

Dude is trying to clean this shit up.
 
View attachment 527211


Not really defending him, but..........



View attachment 527207


I'll admit I haven't gone through all 30 pages of this thread.



First time I've really checked for it since the first 6 pages.
Bruh you quoted my post that jumped this part of the thread off....i quoted a video that was posted about the imagery he uses when black women are the topic to draw views. The video isn't 16 hrs long tho so I see why you paid it no mind...

You and that other nigga keep quoting me telling what he says and who watches him when my point was never about what he says.
 
Niggas that watch his videos keep quoting me telling me what he says in the videos when I've made it abundantly clear that's not what my point is....

I hear what you're saying, and get your point. But I'm not sure he really does what's bothering you. I went to youtube, and looked at his recently added videos, and the thumbnails aren't a collection of images painting black women in a bad light and praising other races of women

20210506_203627.jpg
 
lol thats a nasty ass screenshot

Haha, man I was trying to give a good size sample, and didn't want it to look like I was only picking certain ones to show. It looks OK on my screen as long as you don't click it. May be crazy on other phones though.
 
If it's not about his show or him, why are you moving the goal posts talking about something totally different.
When you consistently reference and reinforce the angry black woman stereotype to the world as the gateway to your platform, what you say is irrelevant. Just like if I come across a video where the title is BLUE LIVES MATTER alongside images of black men being thugs and criminals....you dont get the opportunity for me to hear what I do and don't agree with cuz I'm not crossing the threshold of watching your content and giving you views.

I see candace owens face and I keep scrolling. I see dj vlad and I keep scrolling. Just to name a few. I dont fuck with ppl that push bullshit about black ppl for attention. That's been my point all day.
 
I hear what you're saying, and get your point. But I'm not sure he really does what's bothering you. I went to youtube, and looked at his recently added videos, and the thumbnails aren't a collection of images painting black women in a bad light and praising other races of women

View attachment 527855
oh naw I meant the topics in the screenshot bruh lol



lol@ ............."minimum wage wife skills"...............and..............."Bonnet Bae"





Shaq laughing gif posted inpic thread 11-29-14.gif
 
Back
Top