OPINION Dating and Severely disabled children.

[Race Jones]

yea I mean seeing people strapped to a hospital bed like wheelchair while their parents wheel them around the store is so bizarre to me

you really said to yourself “ yea even tho mason can’t talk, walk, or hear, and has a 50 lb oxygen tank strapped to his thigh, he’s still
alive and that’s all that matters.”




likeeeeeeee wtf?!?

 

[JUDAH]

lol maybe I'm sensitive when it comes to kids. The lil nigga didn't chose that life, that type of shit hurts my heart when I see kids suffering or not being able to fully live life like it's supposed to be lived. Not only that, but you know they be getting picked on like crazy, they probably don't have any friends, shits sounds like a nightmare. I'd definitely be there to help out, no question.

100.

 

[Sam Crooke]

yea I mean seeing people strapped to a hospital bed like wheelchair while their parents wheel them around the store is so bizarre to me

you really said to yourself “ yea even tho mason can’t talk, walk, or hear, and has a 50 lb oxygen tank strapped to his thigh, he’s still
alive and all that matters.”




likeeeeeeee wtf?!?

So.... would you put the pillow over his face?

 

[Eartha Clit]

I don’t think a person should bring a child in this world that they know is going to have severe ailments.


like if the doctor told me hey marisa, your child is going to have severe physical and mental issues, I would terminate the pregnancy.

it’s so selfish to me to go along with the pregnancy knowing they won’t be able to have a full life

I agree 100% seeing that I was in this situation 9 years ago. The decision isn’t easy though, man I damn near went crazy trying to do the right thing. I locked myself in the bathroom for hours. We couldn’t make the decision and they gave me a fuckin deadline to make a major decision. I couldn’t. His daddy either. The day my deadline came, was the day my baby came and left.

I didn’t know how to take that shit, my mama had lost her first born too. So she knew what to say, both of our first children were due Oct 4.

 

[Race Jones]

I agree 100% seeing that I was in this situation 9 years ago. The decision isn’t easy though, man I damn near went crazy trying to do the right thing. I locked myself in the bathroom for hours. We couldn’t make the decision and they gave me a fuckin deadline to make a major decision. I couldn’t. His daddy either. The day my deadline came, was the day my baby came and left.

I didn’t know how to take that shit, my mama had lost her first born too. So she knew what to say, both of our first children were due Oct 4.

wow Kandy

I’m so sorrry you had to experience that.

do you think it was for the best? Did you feel relieved?

 

[Race Jones]

So.... would you put the pillow over his face?

No. He wouldn’t be alive in the first place

 

[Sam Crooke]

No. He wouldn’t be alive in the first place

What if you're baby daddy wanted the kid?

 

[Race Jones]

What if you're baby daddy wanted the kid?

doesn’t matter.

he would have to understand that I’m only doing what’s best for us and our child

 

[Sam Crooke]

doesn’t matter.

he would have to understand that I’m only doing what’s best for us and our child

What if he sued you?

 

[Race Jones]

What if he sued you?

I will gladly go to court then

 

[Eartha Clit]

wow Kandy

I’m so sorrry you had to experience that.

do you think it was for the best? Did you feel relieved?

Aww man, after the super sadness, I was completely relieved and at peace with everything. My mama knows how to make you see the light.

Then I started fucking like a rabbit to have another one. Two months later I was pregnant AGAIN with another boy. I almost loss the son I have now but I was in that hospital acting a fool.

YALL. GON. DELIVER. THIS. BOY. RIGHT. NOW. IM. NOT. GOING. THROUGH. THIS. SHIT. NO. MO.

 

[Golden]

Man please! You can be sensitive to they suffering whilst enrolling in a big brother program

You gonna take on a chick and her severely disabled child?

@BNE, you got a sister? Clearly ya genes carry the secret of life or some shit.

I do have sisters but you threw ur kid off a swing so I can't do it fam

 

[Eartha Clit]

And this is why I don’t want anymore kids. Too stressful for me.

 

[Golden]

I don't think severely disabled people should exist. They're born from a genetic/biological mistake and they'll most likely barely be able to comprehend reality or live a fulfilling life. They're essential children their whole lives, it's a massive amount of responsibility thrust on a parent financially and emotionally.

bleeding heart ass Joshua is a eugenicist? well goddamn

 

[Sam Crooke]

I will gladly go to court then

 

[Eartha Clit]

I've worked at a group home and school for mentally challenged and disabled adults for almost 10 years. It's true, everyone can't do it lol.

Idk if I would personally take on such a big responsibility.

What was some of the stuff you had to deal with?

 

[Chicity]

I do have sisters but you threw ur kid off a swing so I can't do it fam

Why you gotta be bringing up old shit?

 

[AP2.5]

SMH at most of these answers

Really surprised at Josh though

Wow, just wow

I could see if the general consensus was everybody was on the fence, but to just flat out be like nah, compared to some of the other topics that have hills y'all die on all the time, but a person with a disabled child is where you draw the line?

 

[Race Jones]

SMH at most of these answers

Really surprised at Josh though

Wow, just wow

I could see if the general consensus was everybody was on the fence, but to just flat out be like nah, compared to some of the other topics that have hills y'all die on all the time, but a person with a disabled child is where you draw the line?

Josh is a brilliant man

 

[SeaSnake]

Would you date someone who has a child/children with severe disabilities?

No not about all that.