Personally I’m not all that attached to my last name. My pops got it from his pops, who was never in the picture. He and his kids are the only ones on that side of the fam with that name.
I learned that alot of people don't talk about things before marriage....shit some people don't know what to talk about.I’m shocked they didn’t have this last name conversation before the proposal.
Or dont want to because they know it'll end the relationshipI learned that alot of people don't talk about things before marriage....shit some people don't know what to talk about.
Dont be alot of people marry people who they "love" and they dont even know them if your love doesnt include a partnership / meeting of the minds then... it is just a mutual arrangement.. and deal go bad..I’m shocked they didn’t have this last name conversation before the proposal.
I was like this at one point until I decided it was the silliest hill to die onWhy get married if you're not taking the name ?? Just avoid that binding contract that favors the woman and just be life partners or whatever it's called
Taking on the name is apart of the whole ordeal right. You're supposed to be one under one banner right ? But either way it's a business deal that has men at a woman's mercy imoI was like this at one point until I decided it was the silliest hill to die on
Your last name lives through your offspring, not your spouse
The taking last names convo seems like one you’d have prior to proposing