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Is ABW a safe space for Women?

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Kandy said:
I think we should ask women to report it when it’s happening to them. The second you’re feeling uncomfortable, say something. The second you see something like this towards another lady, say something.

The men who witness it, say something. It shouldn’t just be the women alone letting mods know the shit happening.
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So wait, how does that work? Is this when a woman feels uncomfortable because a dude is saying something sexist and chauvinistic, or just any time a chick doesn't like what a guy is saying?
 
The Lonious Monk said:
So wait, how does that work? Is this when a woman feels uncomfortable because a dude is saying something sexist and chauvinistic, or just any time a chick doesn't like what a guy is saying?
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You know what that means

Come on fam
 
AP21 said:
You know what that means

Come on fam
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I'm not being difficult. Dudes on this site are hard on each other. When we get to arguing about something, it can be like WWE. If a chick gets involved in that kinda debate and doesn't like it, is that fair grounds for her to make a complaint? Or are ya'll only talking about dudes being on some sexist or chauvinistic shit?

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other since I don't get on here going hard at the women. I'm just curious.
 
There are gonna be some things said the women don’t like but still delivered without malice. We won’t always see eye to eye with people. That’s life. There’s no need to report that.
 
Kandy said:
What you think?! Don’t pretend to not understand, I’ve seen better from you.
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I don't see what's invalid about my question. Ya'll want to make this a safe space for women. That's fine. I'm only asking if what ya'll are talking about is limited solely to sexist/chauvinistic shit or are you advocating for women to report anything that made them feel uncomfortable.

Again, I'm not objecting to either. I was just curious.

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Kandy said:
They’re gonna be some things said the women don’t like but still delivered without malice. We won’t always see eye to eye with people. That’s life. There’s no need to report that.
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That's all I wanted to know. Thanks.
 
But also while I recently stated I do love black women I'm still a product of my environment

I say shit like bitch,ho etc in real life

if that's what it meant by being a safe space

I'm a nigga.

I'm always gonna talk like a nigga
 
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Loch121 said:
But also while I recently stated I do love black women I'm still a product of my environment

I say shit like bitch,ho etc in real life

if that's what it meant be it being a safe space

I'm a nigga.

I'm always gonna talk like a nigga
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lol My dude, you saying you couldn't stop calling the women on here bitches even if they asked you not to do so?
 
Loch121 said:
But also while I recently stated I do love black women I'm still a product of my environment

I say shit like bitch,ho etc in real life

if that's what it meant be it being a safe space

I'm a nigga.

I'm always gonna talk like a nigga
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If the site runners deem that inappropriate, then this probably isn’t the place for you.

My take, arguing and debating are cool. Getting personal and insulting are not, from either side.

Some men naturally don’t take a woman’s opinion seriously and feel they have to do everything to prove them wrong instead of just backing off.

I’ve also seen women call men out their names and think it should slide cause they a woman.

Neither are cool.
 
I think he means he won’t stop referring to women as bitches. Maybe not the women on the site but when talking about women in general.
 
TheNightKing said:
If the site runners deem that inappropriate, then this probably isn’t the place for you.

My take, arguing and debating are cool. Getting personal and insulting are not, from either side.

Some men naturally don’t take a woman’s opinion seriously and feel they have to do everything to prove them wrong instead of just backing off.

I’ve also seen women call men out their names and think it should slide cause they a woman.

Neither are cool.
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I wasn't talking about calling women on the site that in debates bruh,just talking about I say those words

I wouldn't be bugging no chick out calling her that
 
Will men be called feminine, soft, a pussy or sis when they disagree with females on here? Made to constantly have their anatomy challenged for having a difference of opinion?

I have no issues with trying to make a safe space for females on here. Even recall being clowned by some of the niggas posting in here for having the nerve to mention such a thing when I suggested an attempt to provide female posters with that type of space.

But I think what's being failed to mention in some specific instances is that the energy received was sometimes the energy given.

I don't come here to have my manhood challenged because I disagree with a female on an issue. Which has been my specific experience on this site with a few female posters.

I can admit I've made it hell for niggas like @BlackRain in the same vein I'm no hypocrite. But I've learned from that type of behavior and I've curbed it.

But niggas in here glossing over this. I think it needs to be acknowledged theres shitty behavior on both sides that needs to be openly identified and marked out for any of these solutions to work going forward.

I can acknowledge I've made some females in this thread uncomfortable but I feel that came from the position of being put in a place of discomfort from those same females which I've seen repeatedly get overlooked.

I also know I'm cool or at least cordial with the majority of females on the site.

I think people need to be real about themselves in some of these situations.

Niggas need to stop overly flirting, getting too familiar in PM's, shooting their shot at everything moving, send unsolicited pics and he-man woman hating, in every thread and inbox they can.

But females need to stop making false claims against niggas, running other females off, gas lighting, trolling, calling niggas out their name, calling niggas sis, talking about they mamas, calling em soft, and feminine for disagreeing with em, and hiding behind that same femininity when it's convenient.
 
BlackRain said:
Niggas will talk about your dead parents. Nigga made an offhand comment about my mom weeks after I said she passed on here then tried to deny it after being called out and told he was foul.
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You wanna know something, two mods did this but nigga think they're so great
 
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