How do y’all feel about these parents obituary

Chi-town B said:
Seems like they keeping the same energy in dudes death as they did while he was living. No problem with them doing this
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right....

got other people lying bout they child was going to start school on Monday type shit.

nah.......other youngins need to know that life aint whats up.

cuz monday may never come
 
LLS & SMDH at niggas in here acting like kids really going to receive this as a good message and example to leave the streets alone.
 
mryounggun said:
How are we telling them how to grieve? None of us called them and told them they were pieces of shit. O/P asked our opinion and we gave it.

Square up, nigga. I'm sick of the tension.
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cmon bruh.....i dont want no trouble.
i talk my shit but i aint showing up. and if i do pull up...it will definitely be at the wrong location. just saying

im not the one telling them how to grieve tho.

losing a kid is no joke.....but they might have a reason to react like that. i cant tell them they cant use this as a teachable moment to save others.

thats selfish as shit to say because i lost my child ....fuck teach yall at this moment,.

i guess emmitt tills mom was wrong for the open casket
 
You can do all you can as a parent but a child gonna make their own decisions.

Nigga i grew up with in the same church we both had good grades were on the path to college.

His dad is president of the Alpha Fraternity in Detroit chapter. His dad's twin brother an Alpha as well. Both are deacons in church leaders in the community. They gave him the foundation the structure to succeed.

My nigga decided at 17 to be in the streets. He been in and out of jail his entire adult life and he had a very good background growing up. But he made that decision
 
DOS_patos said:
worth a try
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Dragging your kid name through the mud when yall share the same name ain't trying.

That's being emotional cause your child in THEIR life didn't do what you wanted them to do. The parents fucked up and wrong for that.

I wouldn't have shit to say if they said all that to their family about him but that as the obituary is wrong to me.
 
Don't see a problem.

Their kid was a banger whose choice of lifestyle got him killed.

Might sound heartless to some but lord knows what they went thru.

Also, I don't automatically blame parents when kids turn out foul.

Seems to me they loved their son but felt the manner of his death would have taken away from the service. That's how I'm seein' it anyway.
 
DMorgan said:
Dragging your kid name through the mud when yall share the same name ain't trying.

That's being emotional cause your child in THEIR life didn't do what you wanted them to do. The parents fucked up and wrong for that.

I wouldn't have shit to say if they said all that to their family about him but that as the obituary is wrong to me.
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how they drag his name thru the mud.

they pointed out how his wants and needs didnt matter in the end and brought him a quick demise.
they pointing out how selfish his decisions were and short term thinking.
 
wadupdoe!313 said:
You can do all you can as a parent but a child gonna make their own decisions.

Nigga i grew up with in the same church we both had good grades were on the path to college.

His dad is president of the Alpha Fraternity in Detroit chapter. His dad's twin brother an Alpha as well. Both are deacons in church leaders in the community. They gave him the foundation the structure to succeed.

My nigga decided at 17 to be in the streets. He been in and out of jail his entire adult life and he had a very good background growing up. But he made that decision
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i think parents say “i gave you all the tools to be successful and you chose this life” but do they really educate the child? not just on some “stay out the streets, its bad for you” im talking about real life conservations about the streets??? see from jump my kids will be volunteering at soup kitchens and working with the homeless. i want them to see and understand how hard it can be out here and draw their own conclusions from that.

see, as a reformed hood rat, i loved the streets but there was something in me that knew i wanted more for my life. my mom gave me all the tools she could give me but looking back on it, we never had real conversations about sex, drugs, gun play, it was just “the streets are bad” “ppl die out there” and tbh that just wasnt enough.

these should be ongoing conversations. checking in with your child. really connecting with them and hey maybe sometimes that isnt enough but ive found as youth counselor the majority of children feel like their parents dont listen to them or dont understand them and they deadass need advocates.
 
Race Jones said:
i think parents say “i gave you all the tools to be successful and you chose this life” but do they really educate the child? not just on some “stay out the streets, its bad for you” im talking about real life conservations about the streets??? see from jump my kids will be volunteering at soup kitchens and working with the homeless. i want them to see and understand how hard it can be out here and draw their own conclusions from that.

see, as a reformed hood rat, i loved the streets but there was something in me that knew i wanted more for my life. my mom gave me all the tools she could give me but looking back on it, we never had real conversations about sex, drugs, gun play, it was just “the streets are bad” “ppl die out there” and tbh that just wasnt enough.

these should be ongoing conversations. checking in with your child. really connecting with them and hey maybe sometimes that isnt enough but ive found as youth counselor the majority of children feel like their parents dont listen to them or dont understand them and they deadass need advocates.
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i swear........if you was a dude id fight you.

i dont even want to reply no mo
 
also we dont even know these parents. i mean sit and think about it. whose to say they werent some strict weirdos that u couldnt talk to about everyday life stressors. lmao im not jumping out the bando and siding with them.

you have to be a nut to put this in an obituary
 
You have to be a nut to parade a 12 year trans all over the news
 
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