Look man, lotta sistas ain't grow up wit daddies that treated their mothers the way a man pose to treat their woman. Lotta sisters ain't have an example of what man pose to be to the woman he loves.
So alot of sistas idea of what a man pose to be to his woman. Comes from contrived memes, movies, books, and media. Everything but actual general real relationships, and cause of that. Alot of sistas be in relationships with a disproportionately in favor of themselves viewpoint of what a relationship pose to be.
Like I said in my first post here, lotta sistas want more than they give. And its cause they been told that's what a relationship is, cause growing up they werent privy to what a real one looks like. But that once again falls on the fathers, the men. Its always goes back to the men, as the root cause of this.
As men when you have children, even if you arent wit the mother anymore. Its Important that you be the example of how you treat a woman.
Yea I know alot of women out here are not the standard of decency and get niggaz locked up and do all kinda ratchet shit. I ain't talking bout them. Natural selection, we all cant survive.
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