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BNE said:
the dumbest thing someone can do is think they're an exception. if he or she can cheat with you, they can cheat on you. that's their capability.
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But is cheating enough for o make a person leave? I know in our ego we always (most people) say if he/she cheated I would leave but is that the reality?
 
Celebrity life is not normal life...

You or I date a person,, we're seeing them often. We spend time together. We become convenient accessories to each others life...

Celebs might see for like a week... But more than half the time they on the other side of the world from each other....

And they're used to having everything on demand

I just think its more common amongst celebs....

Just like I feel military marriages cheat more cuz of deployments.... Different life styles
 
Petty Officer Du said:
Celebrity life is not normal life...

You or I date a person,, we're seeing them often. We spend time together. We become convenient accessories to each others life...

Celebs might see for like a week... But more than half the time they on the other side of the world from each other....

And they're used to having everything on demand

I just think its more common amongst celebs....

Just like I feel military marriages cheat more cuz of deployments.... Different life styles
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I don't think space is an excuse to cheat. I also don't think availability is an excuse. for the most part all of us have celebrity moments per se. You work at a bar where women get drunk and their are plenty of them that doesn't make you want to cheat more. I travel, and when I am on the road it doesn't cross my mind to cheat. Now was I a faithful person at 21 no but I wasn't married either. If you are above a certain age and you are still doing things that you would do when you were in your 20's just because you have the opportunity to then that says something about you.
 
Petty Officer Du said:
Celebrity life is not normal life...

You or I date a person,, we're seeing them often. We spend time together. We become convenient accessories to each others life...

Celebs might see for like a week... But more than half the time they on the other side of the world from each other....

And they're used to having everything on demand

I just think its more common amongst celebs....

Just like I feel military marriages cheat more cuz of deployments.... Different life styles
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But still none of those people go into the relationship expecting to cheat or get cheated on.
 
Judge Dread said:
I don't think space is an excuse to cheat. I also don't think availability is an excuse. for the most part all of us have celebrity moments per se. You work at a bar where women get drunk and their are plenty of them that doesn't make you want to cheat more. I travel, and when I am on the road it doesn't cross my mind to cheat. Now was I a faithful person at 21 no but I wasn't married either. If you are above a certain age and you are still doing things that you would do when you were in your 20's just because you have the opportunity to then that says something about you.
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trust me bruh, what is normal to them and what's normal to us is just too different to make that assumption with full confidence....i know you'd like to think you'd still be you.. but if you've been living life within a certain set of rules completely different than the ones you're operating under now....you'd be a complete different person....i mean this is all my hypothesis....i'm not basing it on any facts or anything other than my own observation... but when you're a celebrity.....you can't be normal....so nothing you do should be held to normal standards.....
i'm sorry but if you're dating a celeb..you gonna have to expect to let some shit slide....
Chi-Town B said:
But still none of those people go into the relationship expecting to cheat or get cheated on.
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i'm pretty sure many of them go into relationships in full acceptance that they certainly will be cheated on
BNE said:
That could be said for any demanding line of work or for people who work opposite shifts.
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very true... many powerful people have mistresses, and it's understood and accepted....


tons of folk have families they pay off for their silence.. these aren't new concepts.....

they just don't exist as much in our world, cuz we're not celebs and millionaires....

like if my wife and i are mad at eachother and not really speaking... we still live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, and gotta see eachother every day regardless....so we HAVE to get over it to function as adults....

when you mad at someone and can just leave the city, state, and or country, and it's not even an issue...its jsut normal....

We gotta house in NY and one in Cali.....

i said some shit that pissed you off...and you like....ugh,, cali weather looks nice this weekend, i'm gone.....


shit is just a different world man....
 
BNE said:
u havent necessarily got to be powerful tho. happens with reg families too.

I know of people who are neither celebs nor millionaires but either cheated while traveling for business or squeezed in their dirt when their spouse was away.

frequent travel might make cheating easier to get away with but it isn't gonna make a cheater out of someone who didn't already have it in them. and plenty of non-entertainment related careers involve traveling up to 2/3rds of the year.

middle class, run of the mill managers have been fucking their secretaries since the dawn of time. should people expect to be cheated on if their SO has a receptionist of their preferred sex? people have been fucking their babysitters and neighbors way too frequently too.
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so you agree that certain behavior seems to be more prevalent in certain lifestyles

i mean i don't have all the answers... but it seems like you're just supporting my point by using different examples of common scenarios where shit tends to go down most often
 
Judge Dread said:
@Petty Officer Du but what level of celebrity are you talking about or does it matter. you could be a celebrity in you area. Does the bigger the celebrity equal bigger likelihood of cheating?
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again bruh, i don't have all the answers...i just know they have a much different lifestyle than I do, so things that are normal to me, like seeing my wife every day, having to work with her to handle certain issues around the house.....not having everything in my life handed to me on demand, having to deal with multiple people who may disagree with me through the course of my day....

my reality isn't the same reality as a kevin hart, or usher, or a kobe bryant, or some other celeb who is way more likely to cheat....imo....than little ole me...
 
BNE said:
I support your point in that it's more prevalent but mine is just that it isn't limited to celebrities. I know tons of people, including myself, who's lifestyles involve tons of travel and aren't nowhere near celebs or millionaires.
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well i used celebs cuz we're talking about celebs
 
It's regular folks who out here cheating at a much higher rate than celebs. Like you say you see your spouse everyday so does a lot of other people but they still are having affairs.
 
i'm saying......

and i'll always say....


if you dating a celeb, you can almost expect to get cheated on.....

with the lifestyle a celeb is used to, you're either going to let the shit slide, or it's not gonna last very long....

hence why.....celebrity relationships don't last very long....

lol....yall act like i make this shit up....niggaz be counting down till how long celebrity marriages are gonna fail...when one works people are impressed....
 
BNE said:
the dumbest thing someone can do is think they're an exception. if he or she can cheat with you, they can cheat on you. that's their capability.
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Kinda agree. Wouldn't necessarily call it dumb tho.

A lot folks never really expect to get cheated on. Especially if that person doesn't have a history.

Now wit celebs...i don't think one should be naive about it. Hell you gotta expect it. Muthafuccas pretty much got access to do almost what they want. Niggas can have as much pussy as they can handle w/o having to work for it. All b/c of their celeb status.

Wit Kevin Hart, you knew this nigga cheated on his 1st wife. So why think you would be any different? One can only assume she knew what she was getting into b4 she married him tho.
 
Petty Officer Du said:
again bruh, i don't have all the answers...i just know they have a much different lifestyle than I do, so things that are normal to me, like seeing my wife every day, having to work with her to handle certain issues around the house.....not having everything in my life handed to me on demand, having to deal with multiple people who may disagree with me through the course of my day....

my reality isn't the same reality as a kevin hart, or usher, or a kobe bryant, or some other celeb who is way more likely to cheat....imo....than little ole me...
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You big still. You are famous on two boards maybe more. You are way more internet famous than I and I am sure that there was the occasional woman reaching even tho @LadyDu is well respected. You even had a crazy woman half stalking you. So you seem to be a celebrity to me
 
BNE said:
I agree that celeb marriages are short af. I just don't think they cheat much more than the general population.
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put it like this.......

we interviewed reesey and her husband cuz their lifestyle was soooooooo different and amazing to us...

to celeb couples they're prolly considered prude
 
Judge Dread said:
You big still. You are famous on two boards maybe more. You are way more internet famous than I and I am sure that there was the occasional woman reaching even tho @LadyDu is well respected. You even had a crazy woman half stalking you. So you seem to be a celebrity to me
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most guys in my position would have tried their arm in that situation......

and i fairly certain more than enough boldly proclaimed that

just cuz i can handle shit doesn't mean every dude can....some dudes..........many dudes are only as faithful as their options

i'm very peculiar if you haven't noticed
 
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