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Your partner cheated are you taking them back?

Depends why they cheated. Some like to cheat just cuz its offered. There is no hope for them imo. The other kind cheats because they* feel something is lacking in the relationship and usually stop if the problem can be rectified.
 
Idk I feel like if I became emotionally detached and mentally distant and they sought attention and affection somewhere else I couldn't really blame them.
 
Like I said, I can carry my burden.

I can live with throwing away a marriage due to my lack of trust after being cheated on.

The question is if she can live with throwing away a marriage bcuz she got some outside dick instead of fixing an inside problem.

Not that we dealing with that, but that's my mentality.

I'm right here, if I'm fucking up, let's talk. I can deal with a talk.

But I can't deal with someone running to another party for comfort or whatever instead of dealing with our shit...

You expose a lot of vulnerability in relationships. I can't have that shit being trampled on....I ain't built like that
 
Pride cometh before the fall.....
I am man enough and self-aware enough to admit I am a slave to my own stubborn pride.

I couldn't convince myself I was okay with that shit
 
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