lol I been out of the game for a minute, but from everything I've heard whether its through apps or in person, dating is hard these days and people don't always find the one they wind up with when on the prowl. A lot of people meet spouses through friends/coworkers, at school, at work, through extracurricular activities, etc... Like I said before, access is what matters. A dude could be doing what you're suggesting and striking out, and then just meet a white chick at a function on the base and it turn into something. I can say for myself, other than my wife, all the meaningful relationships I've had with women popped up from random circumstance. They were all black, but that's because I've largely been in black areas for most of my life.