"You Can't Date White Women and Be Pro Black", but I bet you'll smash Candace Owens though.

[The Lonious Monk]

Oh there's definitely a difference in those two and I've come across a few. Usually those the niggas who i say are the only Black people in a group pic. And yeah we're not that far off. Like I said from jump my main issue with what Umar, and others who take that pov, say when it comes to this topic is they grossly overexaggerrate just how many Black men in a certain tax bracket date white women. And their reasoning for it often reeks of them just being lames as opposed to an actual issue with the woman's they wanted.

Fair. I think there is an issue with the women they want, though. Those women just don't want them. lol That happens. Sometimes people, men and women, get fixated on people that don't want them. And instead of saying a specific woman or man didn't want them, they try to bash the whole group.

Don't befriend white people

lol Why you want all black people to be bigots so bad?

 

[AP3.0]

lol Why you want all black people to be bigots so bad?

I think black men should be with black women

 

[The Lonious Monk]

I think black men should be with black women

That's a little different than telling someone not to befriend white people. lol

Not saying either set of instructions is wrong. It's just funny to me.

 

[AP3.0]

That's a little different than telling someone not to befriend white people. lol

Not saying either set of instructions is wrong. It's just funny to me.

Oh well the convo went to "what's wrong if he grew up with them" or whatever it was

And that was my take

 

[BlackRain]

Fair. I think there is an issue with the women they want, though. Those women just don't want them. lol That happens. Sometimes people, men and women, get fixated on people that don't want them. And instead of saying a specific woman or man didn't want them, they try to bash the whole group.



lol Why you want all black people to be bigots so bad?

Exactly. That's why I say like who likes you. People make themselves bitter by going after people who don't want them. They keep the same prototype just change the individual. After a while that prototype becomes how they view all men/women.

 

[Gray Matter]

I can agree with the bold, but that's where perception comes in. We're basically saying the same thing from different sides.

Also, let's acknowledge that there is a difference between a black man who winds up marrying a white chick and a black man who prefers white chicks. Not all of the former are also the latter. I think that's something that's getting confused here. A dude could have one good experience with a white chick that turns into a long-term relationship. That doesn't all of a sudden mean he thinks all white chicks are better than all black chicks. Hell, a lot of the time them dudes be telling themselves that they found the one good white chick.

It's amazing how many black people who are so passionately anti-IR have, from all appearances, never thought of this. Even though the distinction should be common sense.

 

[RandomNegro]

You still can’t be pro black with a white spouse

 

[SeaSnake]

It's amazing how many black people who are so passionately anti-IR have, from all appearances, never thought of this. Even though the distinction should be common sense.

Sometimes you have some wild views bro

 

[Gray Matter]

Sometimes you have some wild views bro

No, just complex.

 

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