Why she don’t want me, man?

Yea, my father gets that we can never be so he don’t even try..and I ain’t even mad at it

My uncles funeral, we at my grandmothers spot..ain’t seen homie in bout 13 to 14 years..

Homie came in house..gave my wife a handshake

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Then chuck the deuce at me and bounced..my wife was like “oh my gaaaaawd, he just gonna peace u up and leave”...I just laughed and told her he a sucka..

But least he know it
 
ChiCity said:
Nah, I do feel you too old to be crying about ya moms tho
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I don't think he crying. He just confused about his emotions.

I'm fairly certain he'd be good never having to talk or dealing with his mom ever again in life. But she's damn near forcing a relationship with him.

And he's not feeling it. That's a legit fucked up spot. Cuz I'm quite sure he got mad people telling him he should care. Prolly got mad people who lost their mom's calling him ungrateful n shit.

And because he's not an overly aggressive person, he prolly bugging thinking maybe something is wrong.

Nigga asking for help.

Me personally, as y'all know, I'm all the way ignorant. I don't hesitate to tell people mind their business, or flat out say I really don't care. I need no ones approval. No ones co sign. No ones favor....When I say I don't give a fuck, I really don't give a fuck.

And I'm consistent. So at this point one even questions me.

I told y'all, dude died last year. He was a die hard cowboys fan. They was doing iight when he died, and my brother was like the think he gonna root for them that year in his honor....I laughed and said imma root against them, and laugh on dude Facebook page when they get knocked off....

Dude thought I was joking.....I slam put " how bout them cowboys?" On homie page....shit was funny to me....But it got noooooooooo likes, lol
 
ChiCity said:
I know I am

If she stressing you it’s because you still letting her. I would have exited that group chat and said fuck you to whichever sibling didn’t like it

She would have gotten the hint by now but that’s just me
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If it was just me and her, i would careless

I’m being respectful out of absolute respect for my sisters that actually do love her a lot.

Old me is a cold hearted dick, but ever since i had kids...I’ve just been more mindful of them

It took me having kids to understand how they feel when I beef wit her or am rude to her..

So I’ve just been mindful to not be that guy
 
I can relate

I grew up without either parent really around. Nor was there a happy go lucky loving environment when they were. That plus a few other conditions turned me very independent and a little emotionally detached from them and others. When I became grown they both at different times tried to make an attempt to be involved in my life (phone calls, invitations and stuff like that). Being that I had basically built an entire life without them it was kinda odd. There were no hard feelings but I just didn't fuck with them like that. I didn't really know them ya know? I also had no desire to (re)kindle a relationship with them. I eventually ended up telling my pops that I don't mess with people like him and that the only reason I ever answer the phone is out of obligatorily respect. For both of them I looked at it like they were unhealthy people for me to be around so I kept my distance.

As I got older I realize there's reasons for everything and I found out that neither one of my parents really had parents of their own or grew up in a loving environment either so they were doing the best they could with what they knew.

My advice in your situation Germs is to give your mother the benefit of the doubt and let her make an attempt to not only make things right with you but so she can make things right with herself. It's also healing for her own soul and it would be wrong on your part to not allow her to heal by keeping those wounds fresh and holding a grudge or just expecting she's on some con shit.

Even if she is on some con shit you can still love/respect her from afar.
 
Germs said:
If it was just me and her, i would careless

I’m being respectful out of absolute respect for my sisters that actually do love her a lot.

Old me is a cold hearted dick, but ever since i had kids...I’ve just been more mindful of them

It took me having kids to understand how they feel when I beef wit her or am rude to her..

So I’ve just been mindful to not be that guy
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Being respectful doesn’t mean you have to force a relationship with her
 
Germs said:
If it was just me and her, i would careless

I’m being respectful out of absolutely respect for my sisters that actually do love her a lot.

Old me is a cold hearted dick, but ever since i had kids...I’ve just been more mindful of them

It took me having kids to understand how they feel when I beef wit her or am rude to her..

So I’ve just been mindful to not be that guy
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Your beef not with your mom's then.

It's with your sisters.


Tell them don't @ you to dumb shit....

Either they get over or they don't
 
NeighborhoodNomad said:
I can relate

I grew up without either parent really around. Nor was there a happy go lucky loving environment when they were. That plus a few other conditions turned me very independent and a little emotionally detached from them and others. When I became grown they both at different times tried to make an attempt to be involved in my life (phone calls, invitations and stuff like that). Being that I had basically built an entire life without them it was kinda odd. There were no hard feelings but I just didn't fuck with them like that. I didn't really know them ya know? I also had no desire to (re)kindle a relationship with them. I eventually ended up telling my pops that I don't mess with people like him and that the only reason I ever answer the phone is out of obligatorily respect. For both of them I looked at it like they were unhealthy people for me to be around so I kept my distance.

As I got older I realize there's reasons for everything and I found out that neither one of my parents really had parents of their own or grew up in a loving environment either so they were doing the best they could with what they knew.

My advice in your situation Germs is to give your mother the benefit of the doubt and let her make an attempt to not only make things right with you but so she can make things right with herself. It's also healing for her own soul and it would be wrong on your part to not allow her to heal by keeping those wounds fresh and holding a grudge or just expecting she's on some con shit.

Even if she is on some con shit you can still love/respect her from afar.
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I think u right, ion what it is but older I get the harder I find it to be the old me..what u stated just sounds like the mature thing to do
 
NeighborhoodNomad said:
I can relate

I grew up without either parent really around. Nor was there a happy go lucky loving environment when they were. That plus a few other conditions turned me very independent and a little emotionally detached from them and others. When I became grown they both at different times tried to make an attempt to be involved in my life (phone calls, invitations and stuff like that). Being that I had basically built an entire life without them it was kinda odd. There were no hard feelings but I just didn't fuck with them like that. I didn't really know them ya know? I also had no desire to (re)kindle a relationship with them. I eventually ended up telling my pops that I don't mess with people like him and that the only reason I ever answer the phone is out of obligatorily respect. For both of them I looked at it like they were unhealthy people for me to be around so I kept my distance.

As I got older I realize there's reasons for everything and I found out that neither one of my parents really had parents of their own or grew up in a loving environment either so they were doing the best they could with what they knew.

My advice in your situation Germs is to give your mother the benefit of the doubt and let her make an attempt to not only make things right with you but so she can make things right with herself. It's also healing for her own soul and it would be wrong on your part to not allow her to heal by keeping those wounds fresh and holding a grudge or just expecting she's on some con shit.

Even if she is on some con shit you can still love/respect her from afar.
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I was with you till you got older....

I accept people for who they are. Toxic people are always going to be who they are.....Toxic.

Parent or not, i can't put toxic people close to me.
 
Kandy said:
Lol @ the heart under the post up there.

Yall men so sweet. nh
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Ayo pick a thread and let’s take this fight there

I’m sick of ya shit and you need to be placed in the Walls of Jericho so you can get some act right
 
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