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didnt wanna bog down the random thread wit this but I need some advice if y’all can give it. I’m faced with a situation that’s foreign to me.
So here’s the situation,..growing up my mother wasn’t in my life like most of you would consider a mother. Basically she existed and I was aware of her existence.
There was a point in my life that I had not communicated wit her for so long, that I had forgotten she even existed until my grandmother told me she was on the phone.
There was a point in my teenage years where I tried to obtain the relationship with her, but I found out harshly that she just isn’t built like that. My sisters, most of them love her and accept her for who she is.
I wasn’t around, so I don’t understand the bond and how it was crafted but that’s them and ion knock em. But everything I ever thought a mother was and seen a mother was. Far as I can tell I’m dealing and talking wit her. That ain’t her.
So you know, rather then grow up some pussy wit mommy issues. At a certain point in my life I just accepted that I don’t have a mother. I mean I have a mother but I don’t have a mom.
So as I go through life, get my life right, get focused. I start heading on the right track, and all of a sudden she starts making an assertive effort to come down south, text me, call me, interact wit me. But it don’t feel motherly at all. It feels forced like she’s tryna long con me.
But I’m at this point where I wanna be like, ..”nah, I’m cool on all that”. Like, she’s been lately tryna take trips down south to stay at my home. Tryna get holidays where all of us, my sisters, our s/o , and our kids spend the holidays together.
Just recently she started a group chat wit her, my sisters and I. Now I know y’all like why u so suspicious she just wanna make up for lost time...but fam
That...ain’t...who..she...is, that ain’t who I know. She be having me thinking like, she only doing the group chat so when she say some positive shit to her kids and everybody respond but me..niggaz gone be looking at me like..
I’m still bitter or some shit, and I ain’t..but bruh...
So I done lost my place in this shit, fuck was I gone ask y’all. Oh yeah, how y’all think I should handle this shit. Cause me being me, all I know how to do is be cold hearted in situations like this. But y’all warm hearted and normal folk..no diss
What’s the normal thing to do here?
So here’s the situation,..growing up my mother wasn’t in my life like most of you would consider a mother. Basically she existed and I was aware of her existence.
There was a point in my life that I had not communicated wit her for so long, that I had forgotten she even existed until my grandmother told me she was on the phone.
There was a point in my teenage years where I tried to obtain the relationship with her, but I found out harshly that she just isn’t built like that. My sisters, most of them love her and accept her for who she is.
I wasn’t around, so I don’t understand the bond and how it was crafted but that’s them and ion knock em. But everything I ever thought a mother was and seen a mother was. Far as I can tell I’m dealing and talking wit her. That ain’t her.
So you know, rather then grow up some pussy wit mommy issues. At a certain point in my life I just accepted that I don’t have a mother. I mean I have a mother but I don’t have a mom.
So as I go through life, get my life right, get focused. I start heading on the right track, and all of a sudden she starts making an assertive effort to come down south, text me, call me, interact wit me. But it don’t feel motherly at all. It feels forced like she’s tryna long con me.
But I’m at this point where I wanna be like, ..”nah, I’m cool on all that”. Like, she’s been lately tryna take trips down south to stay at my home. Tryna get holidays where all of us, my sisters, our s/o , and our kids spend the holidays together.
Just recently she started a group chat wit her, my sisters and I. Now I know y’all like why u so suspicious she just wanna make up for lost time...but fam
That...ain’t...who..she...is, that ain’t who I know. She be having me thinking like, she only doing the group chat so when she say some positive shit to her kids and everybody respond but me..niggaz gone be looking at me like..
I’m still bitter or some shit, and I ain’t..but bruh...
So I done lost my place in this shit, fuck was I gone ask y’all. Oh yeah, how y’all think I should handle this shit. Cause me being me, all I know how to do is be cold hearted in situations like this. But y’all warm hearted and normal folk..no diss
What’s the normal thing to do here?
