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Why Are Females So Hesitant To Post Here?

I have a question I'll direct to you, since we haven't chatted this week (lol) but others can respond: Is it taboo to use an actual photo in lieu of an avi? I'm just curious because I don't see many.

I always start with one but feel odd talking to mainly a buncha dudes with a glamour shot lol
 
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I have a question I'll direct to you, since we haven't chatted this week (lol) but others can respond: Is it taboo to use an actual photo in lieu of an avi? I'm just curious because I don't see many.
Nah, its not taboo. It's actually been suggested more women would post, or at least be more comfortable, if ppl had they own pics vs random avi's up

I was gonna speak on why I think most don't but instead ill speak for myself; I like avatars that represent my mood (GOT. Funny memes, TnA) vs an actual pic of myself.

However I'm thinking actual pics may create a positive change
 
well, niggas on the old site used to OD when people posted their real pics

trying to google image reverse search and shit to see if they could find links to other social media apps

a lot of people work in industries where the may be in violation of security clearance issues. But when you got niggas hellbent on trying to find out who they are irl, it makes people leery of putting up their real picture

After reading Chi's post, i think thats how i am. I just like to change it to how im feeling at the time, but to his point and the females that mentioned it, I think having real pics from time to time might ease the tensions or rather uncertainty about what kinda people post here
 
It's called A Black Web which typifies Blackness hence I like a picture of myself as my AVI



Weve had examples of muthafuckas getting too comfortable using terms such as 'nigga' and being non Black...
 
I've never changed mine from the default. I'm not sure what I'll put there. I might keep my face a secret since ya'll are so secretive lol
Don't follow these degenerates bad example!

Post a pic in the VIP section, that way you can be kinda secretive
 
I remember Reesey saying women like to post amongst men who had pics up or something similar to it. It’s crazy that on FB, it’s normal but here it ain’t.

I remember when i first got on the forum, I was like where the people pics at?

I jus assume they crackas til proven otherwise
 
the idea that facial recognition pics would ease concerns is a lil feebleminded imo. it might ease concerns about people being too anonymous but anonymity aint the cause of most fuckery.

there are plenty of weirdos like @Allergens who post creepy shit like sexualizing underage girls, while having their pics or that of their kids up. Do y'all just selectively edit that out of your memory?

conduct is the issue, not avis.
 
the idea that facial recognition pics would ease concerns is a lil feebleminded imo. it might ease concerns about people being too anonymous but anonymity aint the cause of most fuckery.

there are plenty of weirdos like @Allergens who post creepy shit like sexualizing underage girls, while having their pics or that of their kids up. Do y'all just selectively edit that out of your memory?

conduct is the issue, not avis.

i havent had my insulin yet

could you give me the watered down version of this
 
no matter how we may joke among each other as men, at some point we gotta accept that shit aint gone be cool or taken lightly with women

just like you clean up the convo a lil bit when ya mama or somebody is in the room

we all grown its just respect

but some will feel like its special treatment or babying somebody....not really shit you can do about that
 
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well, niggas on the old site used to OD when people posted their real pics

trying to google image reverse search and shit to see if they could find links to other social media apps

a lot of people work in industries where the may be in violation of security clearance issues. But when you got niggas hellbent on trying to find out who they are irl, it makes people leery of putting up their real picture

After reading Chi's post, i think thats how i am. I just like to change it to how im feeling at the time, but to his point and the females that mentioned it, I think having real pics from time to time might ease the tensions or rather uncertainty about what kinda people post here
That’s why you never post the same pic on different sites. Comes up empty.

And if they do happen to find your other social pages, keep it private. All my shit private. I know mfs found my page but my job and all that ain’t on my shit. Hardly anyone knows where I work.
 
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