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Deep In the catacombs of a tomb of discontent, I came to three doors. None of which pointed to any direction but beckoned to be open so that I might proceed.

The first door I opened as I opened spoke, it said it's name was Tabitha. Once opened, what's inside spoke to me. It told me all the things I hate to hear. I screamed madly into the opening in rebuttal and slammed it shut.

The second door, as I opened it, told me it's name was Connie. Once opened it told me all the things that hurt me. I screamed madly into the door and slammed it shut.

The third door, as I opened it, told it's named was @Hazel . It told me disrespectful things, rude things, mean things. But inside held the one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen. I calmly shut the door, but not before tell it. Your beauty humbles me, humbles me enough to take your criticism, and make myself better.
 
Deep In the catacombs of a tomb of discontent, I came to three doors. None of which pointed to any direction but beckoned to be open so that I might proceed.

The first door I opened as I opened spoke, it said it's name was Tabitha. Once opened, what's inside spoke to me. It told me all the things I hate to hear. I screamed madly into the opening in rebuttal and slammed it shut.

The second door, as I opened it, told me it's name was Connie. Once opened it told me all the things that hurt me. I screamed madly into the door and slammed it shut.

The third door, as I opened it, told it's named was @Hazel . It told me disrespectful things, rude things, mean things. But inside held the one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen. I calmly shut the door, but not before tell it. Your beauty humbles me, humbles me enough to take your criticism, and make myself better.

Shhhhh
 
Sup gabi

Since no one asked, what moved u to initiate threads there vs here?

U frequent both forums, what made u choose them?
More traffic. Plus them bitches be doing the most over there so lowkey I was curious who be keeping the same energy irl. Just checking the temperature...

I feel like I know yall already so I don't need to get to know you lol
 
Deep In the catacombs of a tomb of discontent, I came to three doors. None of which pointed to any direction but beckoned to be open so that I might proceed.

The first door I opened as I opened spoke, it said it's name was Tabitha. Once opened, what's inside spoke to me. It told me all the things I hate to hear. I screamed madly into the opening in rebuttal and slammed it shut.

The second door, as I opened it, told me it's name was Connie. Once opened it told me all the things that hurt me. I screamed madly into the door and slammed it shut.

The third door, as I opened it, told it's named was @Hazel . It told me disrespectful things, rude things, mean things. But inside held the one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen. I calmly shut the door, but not before tell it. Your beauty humbles me, humbles me enough to take your criticism, and make myself better.
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I'll just say women have been respected and treated fairly on here compared to the last message forum I was on .. It was a very fragile and frankly misogynistic place for women to thrive and post freely... Exposures and all



The owner and administration have done excellently... I'd love more women on here to post... I enjoy female company

This is funny to see...considering how much niggas came for and still do come at anybody who doesn't make it their goal to troll women away from the sites
 
You know what.....I been on LSA...a lot more than I'd like to admit...but I been there and I fuckin hate it there. *shoutout to @Goldie lmao*

But I made a few threads on there that I coulda made here...and from the bottom of my heart, I apologize to my ABW sistren and brethren for not doing my part to make this a better place.
why you hate it gabi?
 
why you hate it gabi?
Ok LSA is trash for multiple reasons. This post will be long btw

1. For a woman's site, it's not very open minded at all. In fact a lot of them reinforce ideas that we (women) dislike men for having.
It's also censored af. You can't type nigga on there...you can't type "slurs".... I got a "warning" for calling someone a bitch cuz they said I didn't value education in a thread about would you date a guy that didn't have a degree. I was like "bitch I went to college foh"....post clapped and then the admin gon send me a message talmbout "attack ideas, not people"....whet?

2. They care about shit NOOOOBOOOODY gives a single fuck about. A black celeb will date a non black woman and the thread will do a million pages. Go there (if you dare) and look up anything about Michael b Jordan. It's so many of them that claim they won't see his movies anymore because he, according to them, doesn't date black women and doesn't like them. But then they'll turn around and have appreciation threads for white celebs that will also do a gazillion pages....when said celeb has never sneezed in a black woman's direction.

3. Their takes on relationships are fuckin garbage. I don't even feel like going into it.

4. They remix bigotry....I was in a thread earlier about which is worse: white supremacy or Hispanic domination....the number of replies that said hispanics...when nobody has ever solved the problem of white supremacy.

Now to be fair I've seen plenty of chicks step up and bring a lil balance and call out fuckery in those threads. But there's so many users that the groupthink is very high to the point where it's not even worth saying anything different cuz 1000 of em believe the same shit.

It's really just the worst things about women in one place. Bunch of hurt, bitter women who take their frustrations out anonymously. And don't get me wrong I've seen A LOT of good discussions and jokes on that site and a lot of useful information. But I've had to read through sooooo much fuckery to get there.

And the crazy shit is.....I know ZERO women who carry on like that irl. So idek where the shit comes from. Like I told AP I just do what I always do and stay my ass in the TV and movies threads. Cuz it's draining.
If I feel like it tomorrow I'll post some screenshots.
 
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No wonder why the women at Black Board had PTSD. Lol.

If you read some of their comments about LSA, you'd think they needed therapy.
 
No wonder why the women at Black Board had PTSD. Lol.

If you read some of their comments about LSA, you'd think they needed therapy.
The IC does not prepare you for LSA lol. As a woman I even be feeling outa place there. I truly do not understand where them bitches came from
 
Ok LSA is trash for multiple reasons. This post will be long btw

1. For a woman's site, it's not very open minded at all. In fact a lot of them reinforce ideas that we (women) dislike men for having.
It's also censored af. You can't type nigga on there...you can't type "slurs".... I got a "warning" for calling someone a bitch cuz they said I didn't value education in a thread about would you date a guy that didn't have a degree. I was like "bitch I went to college foh"....post clapped and then the admin gon send me a message talmbout "attack ideas, not people"....whet?

2. They care about shit NOOOOBOOOODY gives a single fuck about. A black celeb will date a non black woman and the thread will do a million pages. Go there (if you dare) and look up anything about Michael b Jordan. It's so many of them that claim they won't see his movies anymore because he, according to them, doesn't date black women and doesn't like them. But then they'll turn around and have appreciation threads for white celebs that will also do a gazillion pages....when said celeb has never sneezed in a black woman's direction.

3. Their takes on relationships are fuckin garbage. I don't even feel like going into it.

4. They remix bigotry....I was in a thread earlier about which is worse: white supremacy or Hispanic domination....the number of replies that said hispanics...when nobody has ever solved the problem of white supremacy.

Now to be fair I've seen plenty of chicks step up and bring a lil balance and call out fuckery in those threads. But there's so many users that the groupthink is very high to the point where it's not even worth saying anything different cuz 1000 of em believe the same shit.

It's really just the worst things about women in one place. Bunch of hurt, bitter women who take their frustrations out anonymously. And don't get me wrong I've seen A LOT of good discussions and jokes on that site and a lot of useful information. But I've had to read through sooooo much fuckery to get there.

And the crazy shit is.....I know ZERO women who carry on like that irl. So idek where the shit comes from. Like I told AP I just do what I always do and stay my ass in the TV and movies threads. Cuz it's draining.
If I feel like it tomorrow I'll post some screenshots.
thank you gabi.
 
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