Who's Side Are You On
- Thread starter Chi-Town B
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Dwayne
Not Like Us
That’s not the same lol
I feel this way as well, once the money goes into the mother's hand the father can't dictate how it's spent. It's the same as if she was spending on bills that her other two kids are also benefiting from
OhMars
MEH!
How not?
Edit- You're right
Dwayne
Not Like Us
mryounggun
OG
At all.
Next time buy the clothes himself...
mryounggun
OG
This is why 50/50 joint custody is always best.
Elzo69Renaissance
I dare one of you niggas to scream No Diddy!
Tell her to give you the school supplies list
1/2
Dont drank out my drank, foo
he's right, shits sad for the kids tho
just the other day i overheard a dude arguing on the phone with who im assuming to be the bm.....he said: "I already gave you money for the laptop....I aint buying no damn laptop!......................we'll shit, they aint gone have no laptop then!!"
while i was dying laughing inside i couldnt help but to think about the kids who didnt ask for this shit, and just need a laptop for school
i wish people wouldnt play games with this shit
just the other day i overheard a dude arguing on the phone with who im assuming to be the bm.....he said: "I already gave you money for the laptop....I aint buying no damn laptop!......................we'll shit, they aint gone have no laptop then!!"
while i was dying laughing inside i couldnt help but to think about the kids who didnt ask for this shit, and just need a laptop for school
i wish people wouldnt play games with this shit
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
The mother is all the way wrong, but her actions are understandable. If you're raising three kids together, it would be kinda foul for one kid to always have better things because that kid's father was a better provider. But the father here is right. It's not his fault the mother made other kids with someone who wasn't as responsible.
Like others have said here, in the future, if the father wants to buy his child things, he should do that himself. Then he wouldn't put the mother in the position where she is seen as the one that's favoring one child over the others. Now if the mother came and talked to me about the issue before just spending my money on her other kids, I probably would have been ok with it if I had money like that. I would have just figured that into the equation going forward.
Like others have said here, in the future, if the father wants to buy his child things, he should do that himself. Then he wouldn't put the mother in the position where she is seen as the one that's favoring one child over the others. Now if the mother came and talked to me about the issue before just spending my money on her other kids, I probably would have been ok with it if I had money like that. I would have just figured that into the equation going forward.
SeaSnake
OG
Her side. Any mom would do the same if she got sense. Kids can’t live in the same house and a different way of life.
AZTG
OG
I mean, I wouldnt be happy, but whats the alternative? My kid got all brand new shit and his siblings wearing shit with holes in them? That aint the environment i would want my kid in anyway.
Them kids aint strangers, theyre my childs siblings, so I would care for them to he happy only because their happiness would effect my kid.
Is it a L? For sure. Would I go out and say only spend clothes for my kid and have him see his own siblings bummy? Nah.
Them kids aint strangers, theyre my childs siblings, so I would care for them to he happy only because their happiness would effect my kid.
Is it a L? For sure. Would I go out and say only spend clothes for my kid and have him see his own siblings bummy? Nah.
Dwayne
Not Like Us
You’re on the kids side. Not her side
Dwayne
Not Like Us
Lying
You’re saying that but you ain’t buying your kid and there sister something every time
So they will ALWAYS have less.
Unless you’re going to make your kid have less on purpose