are you an extrovert? im pretty introverted, wld be interestiing if thats a factor
I have the opposite pov cuz dating isn't an activity for me, its something I only do when I really really like someone. I prefer being on my own if I'm only lukewarm about a guy. if I'm dating multiple people, chances are I'm not greatly interested in all of them n to me thats a waste of time and energy. entertaining people I aint truly feeling is exhausting and I'm protective of my energy.
If it's about getting to know folks or having fun, I can do that platonically. I need a reason to date as opposed to be single and get to know people as friends. that kind of connection just isn't something I've found in more than one person at a time.
dating 1 person at a time doesn't mean rushing into relationships, no more than dating multiple people means dodging them. it doesn't even mean putting your eggs in one basket - there are people who date one person at a time but jump from one to another quickly, with no strings. I think its a style thing. some people's default is starting with many and narrowing down, others is feeling out one at a time.