Golden
Administrator
Do u have any dealbreakers fam? Ur the chillest fr.Was about to say I didn't have any to share, BUT...
This hefa not tellin me she stop using her birth control.
Had a nigga EBRC'ing thinking she was still on the shyt. Messed up part about it, I don't think the hefa would've told me had I not asked her. Can't front, I was a lil pissed.
I mean if she got preggo, I was cool wit it. We've been together long enough, so I felt comfortable of her being the mother to my child. I just didn't like the way she went about it. It came off as some sneaky shyt. Like she did it deliberately to "trap" me per sè.
Not saying she would or is the type to do it, but that's how was perceived. Something like that tho, I felt you should make your partner aware. B/c I felt you're taking away the option of me voicing my opinion on the matter. Not givimg me a chance to see if I was cool wit it or not. If I wasn't, then we would've went back to using condoms.
Voiced my concern about it. She apologized. Kept it moving.
U wld have been aight to have a kid with a chick who didn't tell u sumthin like that b4 u ebrc'd? R u still together?