What is a "pickme" and why do women hate them?

[Soul_Rattler]

 

[King Freeman]

"pickme" or "pickney"?

And lawd she thick. Smash.

 

[Soul_Rattler]

"pickme" or "pickney"?

And lawd she thick. Smash.

"Pickme" as in a woman who wants to be picked.

 

[King Freeman]

"Pickme" as in a woman who wants to be picked.

Never heard this till now. But proceed brother.

 

[5th Letter]

Pretty much catering to a black man is a pick me. If a black woman sides with a black man on a certain issue then she is a pick me.

 

[Goldie]

I didn't know what a pick me was till @Golden schooled me on it. Basically a chick with traditional thinking in regards to relationships.

"i let my man lead the household" type shit.

 

[1/2]

never heard of this, but I see where you're going

they got pick me niggas too.....pandering and preaching what wants to be heard

**coughs Darrick Jaxn cough cough**

cant find the video for shit but some dude on ig roasted his ass to bolivia recently

 

[Freshb651]

I didn't know what a pick me was till @Golden schooled me on it. Basically a chick with traditional thinking in regards to relationships.

"i let my man lead the household" type shit.

women like this still exist ?

 

[Goldie]

women like this still exist ?

@Reesey

 

[1/2]

I didn't know what a pick me was till @Golden schooled me on it. Basically a chick with traditional thinking in regards to relationships.

"i let my man lead the household" type shit.

aight in that case, some of those can be annoying

you can tell at a certain point when they just wanna have the opinion that every man will like

dozens of vague fb posts about what "real women" are supposed to do and niggas living at home repost like "for real doe"

 

[1/2]

never heard of this, but I see where you're going

they got pick me niggas too.....pandering and preaching what wants to be heard

**coughs Darrick Jaxn cough cough**

cant find the video for shit but some dude on ig roasted his ass to bolivia recently

found it



check Darrick's shit for context if you dont know already
https://www.youtube.com/user/JaxnVideos

 

[Allergens]

That's new

 

[Love]

I’m glad there’s a word for that type of women

 

[Remedy]

Never heard the term before and I don't hate them. I really don't care what other women do or what they think I should do as a woman.

 

[Rubato]

I’ve only seen generally unwifeable women use this term.

To describe women who they feel pander to a male’s ideal of what he wants in a woman.

I’m not saying it’s not a thing, but it seems like only unwifeable women feel threatened by it.

 

[SeaSnake]

When i see the woke chicks use it. Its usually the overly traditional type that will accept anything. Like the one who hold niggas down even tho he been un and out of jail for a decade.

But the regular traditional stuff like letting a man lead seems to be what all women want

 

[Love]

never heard of this, but I see where you're going

they got pick me niggas too.....pandering and preaching what wants to be heard

**coughs Darrick Jaxn cough cough**

cant find the video for shit but some dude on ig roasted his ass to bolivia recently

I like Derrick Jaxn lol but I can see how he would be annoying to some men

I’m glad there’s a word for that type of women

I would like to add I don’t have a problem with them but I’m glad I have a name to call them. Some women always want to be better than the next woman like it’s a competition and a man is the prize smh

 

[Shotta]

I don't fux with any woman that watch Jaxn videos

 

[shutupGabi]

A pick me is a chick who goes outa her way to side with her man to the point of being unrealistic or blatantly allowing disrespect just so you can be amenable and look like you can "keep" a relationship...like "my man has never seen me in a bonnet" type shit. Like the equivalent is how we call some dudes simps cuz they go outa their way to get women's attention.

People take it too far and literally call anything you do for a man as being a pick me. They call ayesha curry a pick me...lol


Idc personally and I've never used the term.

 

[shutupGabi]

never heard of this, but I see where you're going

they got pick me niggas too.....pandering and preaching what wants to be heard

**coughs Darrick Jaxn cough cough**

cant find the video for shit but some dude on ig roasted his ass to bolivia recently

I cannot STAND that nigga!!! Lol