I think that people that say shit like this haven't actually seen many fights. It ain't as easy to restrain another full grown human being as ya'll be making it seem. People make it seem like all fights between men and women start out with men just beating the shit out of women. In my experience, dudes usually start out trying to restrain, and the chicks that ain't having that get to kicking and slapping and spitting and one thing leads to another. Now you tell me. This chick came to that house with the clear intention of beating that other chick up and getting it on cam. Do you honestly think, buddy could have put her in a bear hug for a couple seconds and she would have just given up and gone home? We all know these things never work out that cleanly. Again, I'm not saying dude was right to just stand there, but to act like all he had to do was flex a little muscle and everything would have worked out peacefully is naive as fuck.