Was he wrong for not paying?

ay i havent been out there dating in a long time but everybody seem tight and guarded as fuck lmao

there was/is NOTHING wrong with paying for a mans meal....date, friendly hook up, whatever

shit goes the other way around mostly and will continue to

now aside from that if you get a vibe like somebody is just trying to play you thats a case by case kinda thing....but dude sent her the bread

he probably would have splurged on her during their next encounter...he even brought up the pizza like ay that shit was good, thank you

i cant speak for nobody else but thats my love language...i feel all warm and fuzzy when a woman spends some bread on me

buy him a got damn lobster pizza one time, you might be feeding your husband lmao
 
Revolver Ocelot said:
Had to re-read the OP. She should've ended it when the bill came.

According to her ol boy wasn't even paying her any attention. From her story seem like they both was on 2 separate lunch outings.

Should've tapped cuz to pay his half.
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Right

Lack of communications had her moving money to cover an expense as lunch with someone who wasnt interested
 
Why didn't she just tell the cashier to split it up if it was that big of an issue? And why does she keep smacking her tongue like that? And how she gonna say her first instinct is always to pay for herself but 30 seconds earlier say she assumed that dude was going to be treating her to all kinda fancy foods just because he showed her some pictures of food?

What the nigga did does sound lame as hell, but she does too, so whatever, sounds like a good match.

Also, who the fuck pays $80 for two pizzas? I don't care how gourmet that shit is, pizza as a food is never worth that.
 
The date part is far less interesting than the aftermath.

I can totally understand a woman in that situation assuming that the man is gonna pay for the meal, given the way the world works. But...that man is not OBLIGATED to pay for that food. That man didn't do you WRONG by not paying for the meal. That nigga doesn't OWE you anything. If I'm having a meal with a woman and the bill arrives, and she starts to pull out her wallet and card...then gets mad that I 'allowed' her to pay, I'd explain to her that she's an adult, with her own agency and choices and that when the bill came, she paid for it and that was that. It ain't that deep.

And the fact that she's making it that deep is silly.

Just my $00.02
 
1/2 said:
ay i havent been out there dating in a long time but everybody seem tight and guarded as fuck lmao

there was/is NOTHING wrong with paying for a mans meal....date, friendly hook up, whatever

shit goes the other way around mostly and will continue to

now aside from that if you get a vibe like somebody is just trying to play you thats a case by case kinda thing....but dude sent her the bread

he probably would have splurged on her during their next encounter...he even brought up the pizza like ay that shit was good, thank you

i cant speak for nobody else but thats my love language...i feel all warm and fuzzy when a woman spends some bread on me

buy him a got damn lobster pizza one time, you might be feeding your husband lmao
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People so concerned about getting played and/or clout chasing so they afraid to open up. Everything is a show.

Couldn’t be me...

:lol10:
 
He was kinda on some sucker shit IMO

How the fuck you don’t pay for your own shit.
 
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I see a lot of folks asking why she didn't say something.

I know this is a small sample size but also reading the social media posts that some of yall put here expands the sample size a little more.

From hanging out with my younger cousins occasionally and reading some of the social media posts yall put up. It seems to me what she did is exactly what a large majority of this generation does.

They will put up with some bullshit and then get on social media to complain about the bullshit instead of addressing it with said person right then and there.
 
1/2 said:
ay i havent been out there dating in a long time but everybody seem tight and guarded as fuck lmao

there was/is NOTHING wrong with paying for a mans meal....date, friendly hook up, whatever

shit goes the other way around mostly and will continue to

now aside from that if you get a vibe like somebody is just trying to play you thats a case by case kinda thing....but dude sent her the bread

he probably would have splurged on her during their next encounter...he even brought up the pizza like ay that shit was good, thank you

i cant speak for nobody else but thats my love language...i feel all warm and fuzzy when a woman spends some bread on me

buy him a got damn lobster pizza one time, you might be feeding your husband lmao
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If the female offers to pay, makes me like her more. If I asked her out, I will still pay because I feel who ever ask who ever out should pay. But there is nothing more sexy than a selfless woman. Selfless people are hard to find period.
 
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