You could have simply asked how do you respond when someone tells you a person under, let's say 21yo, is pregnant.
Instead you talk about how you have a 20yo church girl. Already possessive af which is creepy
Y'all not kin nor blood. You didn't raise her. You taking a responsibility in her 'maturation' is creepy af. You essentially talk like you were trying to groom her is creepy af. You being 40+ and taking this child 'under ya wing' is creepy af. Us knowing you be 'thinking about' women in age group and how 'happy they make you' is creepy af.
Again, you take out all the personal shit and you have a legitimate question but of course you being you so you can't. You come off as the old fatherless deacon who think they got all the right answers for someone else kids but you got none of ya own. Especially the young ladies. If I was at the church my kids would avoid you and ya pocket candy. No offense
And yeah being a grown man at CEC is creepy af. You say HS now but.....still creepy imo