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NeighborhoodNomad

NeighborhoodNomad

the marathon continues........
If toxic masculinity is a thing is there such a thing as toxic femininity? I've never heard the phrase but then again I just recently started hearing about toxic masculinity.

If yes, what are some of the characteristics of toxic femininity?

And on the flip side is there such a thing as healthy femininity?

What are some of the characteristics of healthy femininity?

Let's discuss...
 
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lets see.....

needing to fight or argue about everything little thing with anybody.
needing to get the last word
emasculating any man within her range
making her degrees a measure of her womanhood and her % of being right
convincing herself she doesnt need a man, while looking for a man to take care of her.
trying to raise children alone to prove she can even tho the father is present
being uncontrollable in public and rather have a bad bitch attitude vs being a lady
having an overall ...nobody better tell me shit cause imma do what i want attitude
 
DOS_patos said:
lets see.....

needing to fight or argue about everything little thing with anybody.
needing to get the last word
emasculating any man within her range
making her degrees a measure of her womanhood and her % of being right
convincing herself she doesnt need a man, while looking for a man to take care of her.
trying to raise children alone to prove she can even tho the father is present
being uncontrollable in public and rather have a bad bitch attitude vs being a lady
having an overall ...nobody better tell me shit cause imma do what i want attitude
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I just knew your black ass would be commenting, hush your mouth.
 
DOS_patos said:
lets see.....

needing to fight or argue about everything little thing with anybody.
needing to get the last word
emasculating any man within her range
making her degrees a measure of her womanhood and her % of being right
convincing herself she doesnt need a man, while looking for a man to take care of her.
trying to raise children alone to prove she can even tho the father is present
being uncontrollable in public and rather have a bad bitch attitude vs being a lady
having an overall ...nobody better tell me shit cause imma do what i want attitude
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Damn... What about healthy femininity? What does that look like?
 
NeighborhoodNomad said:
Damn... What about healthy femininity? What does that look like?
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picking an choosing when to fight.
acting like a lady in public and maintaining control
stroke her mans ego or build him up. it only helps them both.
understanding a child needs both parents so will welcome a fathers help.
understanding adults dont need to brag about paying their own bills
knowing she really does want companionship
doesnt fall for the oprah effect
understanding that men dont want to fuck their degrees
knowing when to walk away
being teachable
picking a man for how he loves her not by the shiny things he has
and lastly....knowing love is not a weakness
 
Shit is fucked up....

I once read some shit by a feminist that said as a man I gotta ask my daughter permission before changing her diaper....

She can't talk yet so this can naturally be quite the situation
 
DOS_patos said:
lets see.....

needing to fight or argue about everything little thing with anybody.
needing to get the last word
emasculating any man within her range
making her degrees a measure of her womanhood and her % of being right
convincing herself she doesnt need a man, while looking for a man to take care of her.
trying to raise children alone to prove she can even tho the father is present
being uncontrollable in public and rather have a bad bitch attitude vs being a lady
having an overall ...nobody better tell me shit cause imma do what i want attitude
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I’m guilty of one of these. I’m not changing cause I do what I want. Can you guess which one?

Then there is 2 I do on occasion and one people might say I do.

 
this may sound confusing but i dont have a problem with a woman who loves sex and has multiple partners but i have a problem with a woman who sleeps around and lets everybody know it.
i always see the two as different
 
Kandy said:
Nigga what? You like low key hoes?
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nah.....i once met a chick...she was straight up like she likes sex. she wasnt in a relationship. she wasnt about fucking any and everyone. but she had her couple dudes she juggled.
she was honest and i had to respect that. she used the dudes for sex because she loved sex.

then i knew a chick who would fuck anyone.....she carried herself like a low esteem having chick and thats how people treated her.
 
yall cant tell me she dont look like she died young and they put her there to celebrate her life.


 
also....a toxic chick is a chick who create problems to complain about.....like

shoot down all his ideas...then gets mad when he doesnt want to think about what yall should do.
 
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