His dad's Mexican but his dad been out of his life since he was 3. He was raised by his blonde blue eyed family and that's all he knows. Maybe subconsciously it plays a role in his decision making, but honestly his white family is uber conservative so I doubt it. If he or his brothers or our kids decided to visit his white family wearing anything suspect, they'd be the first to kick us out the house.Their dad has Mexican heritage right? Was he raised in that culture at all? I think being linked to a traditional culture like that makes people more likely to not do away with gender roles.