This dumbass n!gga Vado really tried to choke Tahiry on national TV.. SMH

[DOS_patos]

Interesting point with the bold.

The underlined is very different but in the context of this discussion I can agree with that.

i say the bold because verbal abuse is a mother too. get overlooked something terrible. i feel like its just a matter of time before it gets to physical.

 

[Banginscrew901]

No security that was the host of the show

ok that furthers my point then, if it's a room full of people and I jump up to jump on this chick somebody should be like aye nah don't risk it but they all chilling sitting like nothing going on.

 

[BlackRain]

Like what? Honest question

The most obvious is a clear bad temper and failure to descalate situations. I would say another is a person who is generally ok with loud, yelling and screaming arguments being seen as normal in your relationship..

 

[DMorgan]

i say the bold because verbal abuse is a mother too. get overlooked something terrible. i feel like its just a matter of time before it gets to physical.

Some say that verbal abuse is worse.

I can't say because I've never been abused verbally or physically but it has been said before. I can somewhat see that angle because of the mental breakdown that it does to a person.

 

[deadeye]

I always liked Tahiry.



Thought her and Joe Budden were gonna end up being the real thing back in the day.

 

[BlackRain]

If you ever watched any of these shows you know theres no shortage of security.

And tahiry been had hands. She been swinged on dudes and chicks alike for less.

Vado literally has nothing to lose lol. But like I said theres a chance they staged it after the fact to make it look worst than it actually was.
Niggas initial reaction was he choked her but did anyone actually see her get choked?

This shit fake but whatever.

What does Tahiry having hands have to do with Vado going after her unprovoked in that situation? This is what people mean in other threads when they say sometimes people go out of their way to find some fault with the person on the receiving end of an assault instead of just saying "Nah, that nigga was wrong for that." Niggas would rather say it's fake, it's staged, she got hands too...

 

[DOS_patos]

That redemption shit only works for people who the public actually want to see redeemed. Vado ain't one of those people

i say this type of thing all the time.
if you let one go because you like the person....another person who think they are liked will think its ok.....its like promoting it but no ...not you.

what does that teach the kids......i know i always bring it back to the kids....but they see this type shit.
if we as society make it unacceptable across the board....then things can slow a bit

 

[BlackRain]

Some say that verbal abuse is worse.

I can't say because I've never been abused verbally or physically but it has been said before. I can somewhat see that angle because of the mental breakdown that it does to a person.

verbal and physical abuse typically go hand in hand. It's hard to believe if somebody is whooping their s/o's ass their doing it while saying nice things to them. That's shit really does break a person down and can create basically a form of stockholm syndrome

 

[DOS_patos]

If you ever watched any of these shows you know theres no shortage of security.

And tahiry been had hands. She been swinged on dudes and chicks alike for less.

Vado literally has nothing to lose lol. But like I said theres a chance they staged it after the fact to make it look worst than it actually was.
Niggas initial reaction was he choked her but did anyone actually see her get choked?

This shit fake but whatever.

looked like he grabbed her shirt to me. but i could be wrong

 

[Rubato]

ok that furthers my point then, if it's a room full of people and I jump up to jump on this chick somebody should be like aye nah don't risk it but they all chilling sitting like nothing going on.

Both other dudes was up under they ladies

The ladies freezing up is expected

The show host jumped in after a few seconds

Nothing about the reactions seemed staged to me, especially with how the shit happened so quick

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Fake or not it’s stil a terrible look....this is why Dame is suing and wilding on WE TV

 

[Suckio Andretti]

Can I still play vado music?

 

[BlackRain]

i say this type of thing all the time.
if you let one go because you like the person....another person who think they are liked will think its ok.....its like promoting it but no ...not you.

what does that teach the kids......i know i always bring it back to the kids....but they see this type shit.
if we as society make it unacceptable across the board....then things can slow a bit

It's not even a bad thing to allow people to redeem themselves, it's just that the redemption is sometimes given for doing the smallest shit possible to make ammends. People got to truly earn that shit but far too often because a person is well liked or is good at *insert thing here* people will overlook that shit so they can keep enjoying whatever that person does. That's why I said for Vado the redemption/this is staged shit makes no sense because he provides nothing to the world that people can't go get from somebody else.

 

[DMorgan]

verbal and physical abuse typically go hand in hand. It's hard to believe if somebody is whooping their s/o's ass their doing it while saying nice things to them. That's shit really does break a person down and can create basically a form of stockholm syndrome

I get that but I'm talking about in situations when the person is only getting either verbally or physically abused not both. Some folks have said the verbal is worse because of the mental aspect of it.

 

[Banginscrew901]

I just said it in another post...people actually like Fabolous and he still ain't recovered from his incident. That redemption shit only works for people who the public actually want to see redeemed. Vado ain't one of those people


What sympathy would he get from yokin her up? Bad publicity is only good when you already have a well known rep. A good portion of people only know Vado through this show. This won't make them go rush and stream his music to hear what the nigga who possibly is whooping Tahiry's ass is rapping about

hell i don't know lol I don't even know what dude does, could be anger issues or whatever. you never know what people agendas are. he very well could have a problem with keeping his hands to his self.

 

[DMorgan]

Can I still play vado music?

If you canceled R. Kelly then you have to cancel Vado.

 

[DOS_patos]

Some say that verbal abuse is worse.

I can't say because I've never been abused verbally or physically but it has been said before. I can somewhat see that angle because of the mental breakdown that it does to a person.

for me.....i think emotional abuse is something crazy.......but thats another topic.
i honestly think if we were to really get into the crux of these things......i think it could help alot of us recognize what we may be doing and/or receiving thats not healthy.

 

[BlackRain]

I get that but I'm talking about in situations when the person is only getting either verbally or physically abused not both. Some folks have said the verbal is worse because of the mental aspect of it.

Oh yeah it can be worse because mental scars take far longer to heal than physical scars. You ever seen how hard it is for somebody who has been verbally abused to do something as simple as accept a compliment? It's truly sad and heartbreaking

 

[unspoken_respect]

what you mean by defend?

I say that cause the "what's the whole story" clique shows in any thread about domestic violence like they can justify it.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Can I still play vado music?