Golden
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say no to settling. u r better than that
The Mythical Unicorn: Do they exist?
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I haven't found the one yet. He will eventually come to me, if not already.
NoOneImportant
Member
You said the same thing as I did, LOL. You used circumstances, I used settle. By the way, the sassy, quick-witted short-handed Trini is back, <3.
Golden
Administrator
I mite have misunderstood b. to me, settling means accepting something/one which is not perfect for you. which is unnecessary becuz there r statistically at least a few who wld be perfect for u. so settling for 1s u know u aren't best suited to just serves to block out ur perfect match, imo.
NoOneImportant
Member
LOL, I think you were sort of right the first time around. I was being a bit pessimistic, while you are being optimistic.
However, I think we meant the same thing.
Golden
Administrator
I think the word "settle" threw me off. that falls under not ending up with 1 of ur Mr or Ms Right's in my book.
u ain't that pessimistic. pessimistic wld be saying ppl ain't shit, stay alone brehs lol
Az
Beautifully Crazy...
I believe there is that "1" out there.
Yes you can love multiple partners at different times hell even at the same time. (NOT ME)
Still just cause you fall in love doesn't make them the one because as much as I loved my recent s/o (long distant relationship) he wasn't the one and he still isn't and will never be.
We just aren't compatible but he don't seem to understand that.
99.99 % HE IS NOT THE ONE (jerry springer voice)
Yes you can love multiple partners at different times hell even at the same time. (NOT ME)
Still just cause you fall in love doesn't make them the one because as much as I loved my recent s/o (long distant relationship) he wasn't the one and he still isn't and will never be.
We just aren't compatible but he don't seem to understand that.
99.99 % HE IS NOT THE ONE (jerry springer voice)
Whiskas
Curiouser & Curiouser
I don't necessarily think there is "the one". I think for everyone there are probably a lot of people who would be compatible. Imagine if there were a compatibility test, some may score an 8, others a 9, if you are lucky, you get a perfect 10.
Personally I think 8 and above can be considered compatible.
Personally I think 8 and above can be considered compatible.
Golden
Administrator
u worded it well. I think thers a rare few who are compatible to the point of seeming made for u (10 scores), n an even higher number r compatible enough tht u cld have a fulfilling relationship (9s and 8s).
My issue with 'the one' concept is that u cld have a perfect 10 in compatibility, but meeting another 9 or 10 might compromise ur bond. Get u thinking "I thought Richard was the one but now that I know David exists, I'm not sure". belief in the 1 might make u question the great thing u got, if u have it in ur head that only 1 person on this erf cld/shld fulfil ur criteria. it's arbitrary af.
MzLyricist
How much better is it to get wisdom than gold!
I believe that there is "a one" out there. And also believe if a person is the one then some way or another y'all will be together. If not, then I agree with a few on here when they say you should end up with that person that you feel like is the one. Anything else, in my mind, is settling.
LadyDu
Member
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devlyn
New Member
No one is perfect but as long as what positive qualities you look for in someone outweigh the negative aspects that sounds like a win to me.
Dammmmnnn!! Love it on point
