I think the most interesting thing about American society is how the concept of agency overrides any sense of moral culpability or failing by another party.
"Yeah, but they chose to play football."
"Yeah, but they chose to do porn."
"Yeah, but they chose to join the military."
"Yeah, but they chose to go to college."
Lol, when someone get into a car accident and die, nobody says, "Yeah, but they chose to drive."
America is a psychopathic place. Lol the accountability and responsibility spiel Americans love is gaslighting and cope.