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BNE said:
if you do, you're leading her on.
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How though?

You just wanna go and enjoy the wedding and eat some cake and drink a few drinks maybe dance.

How me or any dude in the example going to the wedding with her, is leading her on?

She's a cool chick
 
@BNE sometimes people have been treated a certain way for so long that they don't understand that regular life is just that and they feel like you are doing something special with them. Just because we are going certain places and doing certain things doesn't make us in that kind of relationship. Sometimes people don't listen to what a person says and misinterpret actions. My actions were misunderstood sometimes just based on the fact that the woman wasn't used to moving with someone like me and how I move.
 
AP21 said:
YES

aight...another example...if you just wanna fuck, and the chick wanna invite you to a homegirl wedding as her +1...do you go?
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if it was smart me, i'd prolly remind her that's boyfriend shit and i don't do boyfriend shit......
 
Judge Dread said:
@BNE sometimes people have been treated a certain way for so long that they don't understand that regular life is just that and they feel like you are doing something special with them. Just because we are going certain places and doing certain things doesn't make us in that kind of relationship. Sometimes people don't listen to what a person says and misinterpret actions. My actions were misunderstood sometimes just based on the fact that the woman wasn't used to moving with someone like me and how I move.
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Incredible Post

That's all I'm saying, if I am just living life and doing me or what I or you find fun, why do I have to throw out a disclaimer for you to be at ease, I don't get it.
 
Knock_Twice said:
How though?

You just wanna go and enjoy the wedding and eat some cake and drink a few drinks maybe dance.

How me or any dude in the example going to the wedding with her, is leading her on?

She's a cool chick
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If she has a kid, and invites you to their bday party or an event at her church...you going?
 
Judge Dread said:
@BNE sometimes people have been treated a certain way for so long that they don't understand that regular life is just that and they feel like you are doing something special with them. Just because we are going certain places and doing certain things doesn't make us in that kind of relationship. Sometimes people don't listen to what a person says and misinterpret actions. My actions were misunderstood sometimes just based on the fact that the woman wasn't used to moving with someone like me and how I move.
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it most certainly does

just like on Insecure...Tasha invites Lawrence to her family reunion...if you just trying to fuck, what message does that send to her that you she about to show you to her people, but all you trying to do is fuck?
 
Knock_Twice said:
How though?

You just wanna go and enjoy the wedding and eat some cake and drink a few drinks maybe dance.

How me or any dude in the example going to the wedding with her, is leading her on?

She's a cool chick
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If she invites you to her family reunion, were yoi gonna basically meet everypne she holds dear, you gonna go with her?
 
AP21 said:
If she has a kid, and invites you to their bday party or an event at her church...you going?
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If I think the chick is cool and worth my time, yea I'm going.

Man if she invites me to the moon and I have the time in my schedule, Ima go.

I don't understand these boundaries of places, you should and should not go to? only reserved for this type of status
 
i'ma sit this one out though...there's enough popcorn in here to last me the rest of the year
 
Knock_Twice said:
If I think the chick is cool and worth my time, yea I'm going.

Man if she invites me to the moon and I have the time in my schedule, Ima go.

I don't understand these boundaries of places, you should and should not go to? only reserved for this type of status
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brah...im not falling for the banana in the tailpipe...i'ma let everybody else get at you

im on the sideline watching
 
Judge_Judah said:
If she invites you to her family reunion, were yoi gonna basically meet everypne she holds dear, you gonna go with her?
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I'm going, I don't see an issue, maybe it's just me breh, I'm not saying I'm right by any means, or yall are wrong, I'm just trying to find out why a person has to limit themselves on fun for the sake of this so call (leading someone on)
 
Knock_Twice said:
Come on breh,

How's that bf activities, so we labeling what's bf/husband/single life activities are?

Come on big breh.
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if u go to a wedding with a chick, you're going to a social gathering where the centerpiece is love and a future together...

most people who go to weddings get really caught up in the occasion....

it's romantic...like intimately romantic....

weddings are also very personal... if she's going this is obviously a person she fucks with heavy, and really wants to see.....and as she sees hem she's presenting you as well.....

whether it's family or a close friend, you accompany her to a wedding, you are being presented to those she cares about as someone she really cars about.....

and that's boyfriend/girlfriend shit...not someone u just fucking.....a wedding is deeper than a family cookout....

i ain't bring chicks to no social activities...my peoples ain't gotta meet who i'm fucking...and i meant that shit.....and i don't wanna go to your shit either....i'm just fucking you....i'm not tryign to take good care of you....i don't need your fmaily and friends looking at me like i'm really gonna be there for the long run
 
AP21 said:
brah...im not falling for the banana in the tailpipe...i'ma let everybody else get at you

im on the sideline watching
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I'm just asking breh, barbershop talk breh. I aint saying what I think is right, nor wha you or anybody else think is wrong. just a different view we bring to the table.

Chime in breh.
 
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