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OhMars said:
Teaching is the most important part, but supervision is important as well. We have all done stupid shit regardless off how much we've been taught.

So do you believe in monitoring children's phones and online activities or not?
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Brotha if you have to go behind your kids back instead of he or she trusting you to communicate you failed already. That's some sick shit about plotting to invade privacy on purpose for your own damn seed.
 
Ironman said:
Brotha if you have to go behind your kids back instead of he or she trusting you to communicate you failed already. That's some sick shit about plotting to invade privacy on purpose for your own damn seed.
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Kids are sneaky and maybe a bit more smarter. I wouldn't make it into something Im just dying to do bc Im hoping to catch them in the wrong. It's the issue of protecting my child's innocence and keeping them out of harms way as best as I could. Shit happens man.
 
I KNOW they've seen my email cuz they made one of the changes I suggested, yet the others went ignored. assholes.
 
Dumb that i have to work today, then have tomorrow off. Then i have to come back Wednesday and Thursday but have Friday off cuz i took PTO. I should have thought of this more.
 
Blactivity said:
Sometimes it needs to be invaded. Social media and technology is life and kids are more prone to visiting places they don't need to be going and talking to ppl they shouldn't be conversing with. Soon as something happens, ppl will talk about how did you let your child do so and so and not monitor it.
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your child is going to watch porn.

you cant stop it.

what you can do is teach your child that porn is highly unrealistic and how the normalization of pornography fuels rape culture
 
Race Jones said:
your child is going to watch porn.

you cant stop it.

what you can do is teach your child that porn is highly unrealistic and how the normalization of pornography fuels rape culture
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my child will likely watch porn but not before they're @ least in their early teens. supervised internet access n phones without net, only.

if their friend @ school shows em, so be it.
 
AP21 said:
porn fuels rape culture?

explain plz
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"pornography presents women as inferior - at its core, a vast majority of pornography implicitly or explicitly devalues and degrades women. In pornography, women are only valuable insofar as they bring pleasure to men. It strips women of their agency
Pornography objectifies women- similarly, the vast majority of pornography objectifies women; their bodies are important, as is their function as an element in sexual gratification.
Pornography treats sexual gratification as an end to itself - Pornography perpetuates the harmful notion that sex is everything; it’s an end to itself. The value of things like consent, the perspective of others, relationship, love, conversation, covenant, interaction, deeper meaning? Unimportant. Just exit out and move along.
Pornography encourages male aggression-Not only is pornography continuing to expand, but formerly fringe forms of pornography that encourage male aggression are also becoming more mainstream (i.e., bondage porn, rape porn, BDSM). There is a logical reason for its growth; scientists have found “people who watch a lot of porn are likely to need increasingly graphic material to achieve the same sexual stimulation.”
 
Race Jones said:
"pornography presents women as inferior - at its core, a vast majority of pornography implicitly or explicitly devalues and degrades women. In pornography, women are only valuable insofar as they bring pleasure to men. It strips women of their agency
Pornography objectifies women- similarly, the vast majority of pornography objectifies women; their bodies are important, as is their function as an element in sexual gratification.
Pornography treats sexual gratification as an end to itself - Pornography perpetuates the harmful notion that sex is everything; it’s an end to itself. The value of things like consent, the perspective of others, relationship, love, conversation, covenant, interaction, deeper meaning? Unimportant. Just exit out and move along.
Pornography encourages male aggression-Not only is pornography continuing to expand, but formerly fringe forms of pornography that encourage male aggression are also becoming more mainstream (i.e., bondage porn, rape porn, BDSM). There is a logical reason for its growth; scientists have found “people who watch a lot of porn are likely to need increasingly graphic material to achieve the same sexual stimulation.”
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how could porn teach about relationships and love though? it's literally the depiction of sex. if it covers other things and has a story, that's extraneous. it's porn within a film or porn within a visual story but porn itself is/has always been about sex.

bondage and bdsm are not male-centric either. the de-sensitization side effect happens with over-exposure to anything, that isn't linked to rape culture.
Race Jones said:
lmao yall are so unrealistic
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Not really.

I don't believe in smartphones for kids personally. Other parents can do that tho.
 
BNE said:
how could porn teach about relationships and love though? it's literally the depiction of sex. if it covers other things and has a story, that's extraneous. it's porn within a film or porn within a visual story but porn itself is/has always been about sex.

bondage and bdsm are not male-centric either. the de-sensitization side effect happens with over-exposure to anything, that isn't linked to rape culture.
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they are not male-centric but it is presented as such in porn
 
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