It's an interesting thought experiment tho...are you what you do once or twice? like replace the gay shit with something else to see if the logic holds. I'm not a crackhead if I hit the pipe once. But I am a killer if I kill once.I get it, but I'm not sure why gay and trans people bother people. I find reaction to it like a grown version of the cooties game. I'm not sexually turned on by men, and if you as well are not. Why do you care that someone else is. And sucking a mans dick is a gay act, so its gay...fuck outta here tank.
If you wanna suck a dick, suck a dick, it's your prerogative. But dont lie to yourself about what it is.