Taking a break.

[Loquacious]

In a relationship is there a such thing as taking a break?

What are the breaks for?

Do they help?

Would you allow this in your relationship?

 

[Race Jones]

I don't believe in "breaks."

Sounds like a recipe for disaster

 

[Golden]

Nah. Needing space to yourself while still together, aight. Everybody needs alone time sometimes. Going "on a break" tho? Basically wanting a trial breakup imo. 1st step there.

 

[Goldie]

No such thing as "a break"

 

[Golden]

I know ppl who had kids with other ppl during breaks lol

 

[Duwop]

Break up

 

[SeaSnake]

I know ppl who had kids with other ppl during breaks lol

Nigga I went to school with did that and ended up back with his wife. Didn't even understand that foolishness.

 

[Golden]

Nigga I went to school with did that and ended up back with his wife. Didn't even understand that foolishness.

Yeah, worst 1 was when the break was only for a week smh. how u gonna impregnate another woman when u n ur wife went on a "break" days ago?!

 

[SeaSnake]

Oh nah they was like a year or longer I think

 

[Old Man Cain]

If I take a break best it's over

 

[Ironman]

Relationship is over if that happens

 

[Loquacious]

Relationship is over if that happens

So you're the type to try to work out every problem.

 

[Chi-Town B]

So you're the type to try to work out every problem.

Shouldn't that be what everyone should do. Why let problems linger.

 

[Loquacious]

That is what everyone SHOULD do but everyone doesn't.

 

[Ironman]

So you're the type to try to work out every problem.

I try not to hold grudges and prolong arguments if there is a way to forgive and move past it let's do it. I don't get in a relationship for breaks I'm with her because I want her in my life.

 

[Chicity]

So break and space don't mean the same thing right?

 

[Golden]

So break and space don't mean the same thing right?

no. needing space = needing a lil alone time right? not pausing the relationship n acting single?

 

[Judge Dread]

How does 1 come back from taking a break? Do you discuss rules of said break?

 

[Loquacious]

How does 1 come back from taking a break? Do you discuss rules of said break?

From personal experience, its fatal. I never fully got back into the relationship. My mind wasn't in it anymore. I fell out of love.

 

[Judge Dread]

From personal experience, its fatal. I never fully got back into the relationship. My mind wasn't in it anymore. I fell out of love.

So you actually did this? Was the terms discussed? I can't imagine this. If we taking a break it is a permanent change in our situation. There is no coming back to the way things used to be. If you want space take all the space you want because again there would be no coming back from space but then again if we are not living together then space is just us not seeing each other and that doesn't need a long conversation. Unless we had a pattern and it is being broken.