STOP LYING TO YOSELF
- Thread starter ImaInfluenza
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A tranny told me getting head from them ain’t gay and I said “sir..”
People make a distinction between the person doing the fucking vs the person getting fucked.
It's been said that pimps fuck Gay men in the ass, not the other way around.
If you fuck a pimp in the ass he'll castrate you, if you fuck a Gay man in the ass he won't do anything.
It's been said that pimps fuck Gay men in the ass, not the other way around.
If you fuck a pimp in the ass he'll castrate you, if you fuck a Gay man in the ass he won't do anything.
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
All and all, I'd like for the community to post examples of mental gymnastics for ego purposes , when folk can just say what it is and deal with the emotions that come from it
JUDAH
OG
I have an example that stems from my own personal battles.
All in all, I would consider myself a nice guy. I'm a compassionate person that with honest self reflection would view myself as an empath. But growing up in environments that i did, especially during adolescence/teenaged years, that is looked down on. Mind you, I'm 6'2 as an adult and have been at least 6'0 since i was like 14. I also am really an introvert at heart. So i think my size deterred a lot of people from trying me, but every fight ive been in was woth someone my size or bigger. Many of the fights I've been in have been because someone viewed the personality i have as being "soft". Mainly because I've always been that person to not follow crowds and call people out for behavior i view as fake. I'm the type of person to befriend people that commonly would be called "nerds" or "lames". I also am quiet until i get comfortable. But at the same time, i was always athletically gifted and deemed "popular" because of that, even though deep down i never wanted that.
This lead me to getting into fights because i stood up for someone else that wouldn't, or snapped off at someone for disrespecting me in a way that they wouldn't have had they known how o would react when it happened. I've really hurt everyone ive been in fights with, and that usually stopped the disrespect from occuring in my vicinity on circles that knew i would get to that point. But being honest with myself, i don't like fighting. I don't like causing harm to others when it can be avoided.
But if i put myself in someones elses shoes and honestly assess myself, i would think i was "soft" too. Mainly because every fight I've been in was one where i got hit first. Unless someone got physical, normally let things go. Looking back at it though, it was mainly because my pops was so strict on not getting in trouble in school/out in the world, i was more scared of dealing with him when i would get in trouble than anyone else. He always used to say how being caught up with the law, there was nothing he could really do for me there. And how i should only fight when absolutely necessary. I think that stuck with me young.
So looking at those two reasons for not liking fighting, was it engrained in me from my parents? Or was it my own personal morals? Or a combination of both? Or am i really just a "soft" person?
JUDAH
OG
I did forget something. With all that said, i love boxing. So what if with everything i just said is my own brain doing those mental gymnastics to appease my own perception of myself of being a pacifist when really i do like when i have to fight?
Like enjoying the respect/praise thay would come my way from beating someone up. The feeling of confidence and satisfaction from knowing that i physcially dominated another man? nh
That's ego and i know it, but at some point i became cognizant of it. I haven't had a fight in almost 10 years, but id be lying if i said i didn't think about it.
Like enjoying the respect/praise thay would come my way from beating someone up. The feeling of confidence and satisfaction from knowing that i physcially dominated another man? nh
That's ego and i know it, but at some point i became cognizant of it. I haven't had a fight in almost 10 years, but id be lying if i said i didn't think about it.
Wild_Sleestak
Member
It begins....
Busta Carmichael
LOT - Full-Time Kufi/Yarmulke Smacker
You don't have to have sex to be gay... kids know they are gay/lesbian while being virgins
You mean to tell me pedos don't exist until they have sex with a child?
You mean to tell me pedos don't exist until they have sex with a child?
mryounggun
OG
Fam, read the room. We all ignored that shit for a reason. And here you go quoting it and shit. Lol. Just back away slowly and let it die.
mryounggun
OG
It's come to my attention over the years that most people really have NO idea what the word 'pedophile' means.
Elzo69Renaissance
These scars are the only real proof they could not
mryounggun
OG
Nigga also gave out the personal phone number of the editor of Forbes, posted his ENTIRE contract, etc.
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
I've thought about killing people, that make me a killer?
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
I think the running ideology is that the vast majority of children that have those feelings have also been molested. There was some lesbian scholar talking about that being the gay community's dirty secret.
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
I think your idea of soft is the idea of a normal person. I think you are doing mental gymnastics to avoid the fact that theres nothing wrong with not wanting to fight everyone for every little reason. By taking something normal , making it lesser and chastising yourself with it as punishment.
mryounggun
OG
I'm pretty much the same way. Most of the fights I got into when I was a kid was holding my homies down when THEM niggas got into some beef. I honestly think a nigga who doesn't mind LOOKING soft to other people, to avoid the drama and maintain some semblance of peace, but will definitely get it popping if you force him to...is the OPPOSITE of soft. The nigga who just gotta spazz out if he feels like somebody thinks he's soft...is super soft. Lol.
I'd say it's prolly your own personal morals. Rather than being engrained from your parents.
Wild_Sleestak
Member
My bad. I didn't know we were having a mature conversation in the the "vegans are the bisexuals of the culinary world" thread.